Why is it a good thing to meet her???

Question

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a little over three months now. It is going very well. I introduced him to my kids last weekend and he introduced me to his brother. That all worked out fine. But this weekend his ex girlfriend is in town. They have stayed good friends and he wants me to meet her. He is very persistant in the me needing to meet her. I'm not to happy about it. I don't really have a specific question I would just like some general opinions on the subject. Thanks

Answer 1

That's a two fold problem. You can take this opportunity to get to know her (??), and in that vein, you are ontop of the situation. You're putting yourself out there for her to see that he has moved on. On the other hand if you feel secure with your relationship and you're not worried, and you have no inclination towards meeting her , then dont bother. You don't owe any debt to his EX, and i'm sure he can understand that. His reasoning behind the meet may be in hoping that you'll understand they are really just good friends now. But in my head, i think you'd probably come away from the meeting jealous. I know i probably would, cause you know they'll be talking about their old times together. Good luck.