i want to go further with my girl. i want to f*** her all night long. but she says she isnt ready... what should i do? should i dump her for someone who is willing to get it on with me or should i stay faithful to her and just wait it out. how long will it take her? help!!
2007-01-19 13:14:21 · 10 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
old enough ok? ppl help me or dont!
2007-01-19 13:18:02 · update #1
If you really like her and are serious about her I would wait... give her some time... It will work out...
It will take as long as she needs to, so don't pressure her!!!
If you do break up with her just because she won't have sex with her... you are doing her a favor.. she doesn't need a guy like you!!!
2007-01-19 13:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If sex is more important to you than your feelings are for this girl then by all means dump her. You can go any where and get sex. There are plenty of sluts out there. But, sex with just anyone verses sex with the woman that loves you and you are in love with her is by far the best sex ever. It takes a while for a woman to feel comfortable about herself especially if it is her first time. With women it is all about trust. So, you can either wait it out for the real thing or just go have sex with who ever.
2007-01-19 21:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I ask because you seem pretty imature. It comes down to this, you are either a pathetic shallow man or you are the kind of man that wants to really care, love and be committed to a girl. That's it. Sounds to me like if you have to ask then you already know you are only interested in having sex and not really having a loving relationship with your girlfriend.
2007-01-19 21:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by puffs28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her, you will wait until she is ready for sex. I cant say how long it could take her.
You do have the option however, to get from others what she isn't giving you. That is a decision you will need to make on your own.
2007-01-19 21:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care for her, if you love her then you should be able to wait for her, she is not telling you that she won't do it with you, ever, she is just telling you to give her time, if you just want sex and no relationship that means that you don't care for her, then you should do her the favor of breaking up with her, because then that means that there is someone special out there for her, and you can just go on and do your business with someone just like yourself. do your girl a favor and don't break her heart, be considerate.
2007-01-19 21:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not willing to wait for her, then you dont deserve her. It is called respect. It could take her years.
2007-01-19 21:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by lady_daizee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you marry her I'll bet she gives you some. If your not willing to do this however you are likely not worth her time.
2007-01-19 21:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by sean e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm u preety much sound like a complete *** hole just cause of the things u just said and i hope ur girlfriend sees this.... so she can get out of this relationship
2007-01-19 21:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by crazziemae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nahh u keep ur girl but u still f*** some1 else with out letting her know
2007-01-19 21:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
o gosh.. what kind of guy r u?
2007-01-19 21:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by elvira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋