My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years and we're both old enough to go further but I don't know if I'm comfortable with the idea yet. He has asked me a couple of times but I said that I'll think about it because I'm scared of what could happen between us if I tell him that I'm not ready yet. What, or how, should I tell him?
2007-01-19 13:11:12 · 4 answers · asked by hotchick13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, don't ever let anyone push you into something you don't feel yo are ready for no matter who or what it is. If your bf really cares about you then he will have to understand, and if for some reason it doesn't work out between the two of you then he would have found another excuse when he tired of you. Just tell him no, you are not ready and that's all there is to it.
2007-01-19 13:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight with him. If you're not ready, then say so. If he loves and respects you he will wait If he doesn't want to wait, then you can save yourself for someone who will wait until you are ready.
2007-01-19 21:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect your wishes. If he doesn't want to, time for a new bf that will respect you and your beliefs towards sex.
2007-01-19 21:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout this...."I'm not ready and I don't know when I will be." If he pressures you, dump his ***.
2007-01-19 21:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋