so i had a boyfriend who lived with me rent free, ate my food, and invited people over and offer them food w/o my permission. i took him in b/c he seemed really nice and he was staying in this frat but he claimed they were mean to him and that his dad was an alcoholic and he had no where else to stay. I was there for him all the time. then he got this job as a server and he started hanging out with people from work he quit calling and he was staying elsewhere he was not returning my phone calls. then I went to the hospital he didnt even call so I kicked him out. well Im not the only vicitm last night the guy that let him live in his room in the frat told me he lives with 5 guys one is from his work. I found out 2from his ex's friend that he used her and when she found out the frat guy was going to let my ex move in she warned the frat guy but my ex said she was psycho.well one of the 5 new guys he lives with now is a friend of mine what should I do?and should I warn my friend?
2007-01-19 13:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell your friend but try not to include anything emotional when you tell him about the loser. In other words, tell him facts like he didn't pay rent, didn't buy food, etc. Not that you were hurt by this or whatever. That might make you look psycho (you're not but, you know how people will spin it). Just warn your friend once. More than likely, loser dude will show his true colors soon enough and your warning won't seem so crazy.
Good for you for kicking him out. He sounds like a grade A loser.
2007-01-19 13:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Limit your alcohol intake. Two is the limit for a clean sober night. Don't go getting drunk and say you said this when you don't know what the **** you actually said. I think you should ask to just talk like friends for a second, tell her you're sorry for whatever you did to set her off and you aren't drunk but you want to know what you said that made her so mad. Maybe you really did say something really shitty and she's just waiting for an apology. Or maybe it wasn't that big a deal. If you want her that bad, just apologize anyway. Just be nice, I guess. If you really don't care then go find some other girl to flirt with.
2016-03-29 05:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the warning is out of concern and not spite. Who knows, maybe your ex treats guys with more respect than women and your friend will not need the warning.
2007-01-19 13:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess u ought to just move on...God will bless u for helping someone needy out, but let him find his own way.
At least he has a job now and can feed himself.
wish him the best and think positive about him instead
of backstabbin him.
u should all get along and be friends.
2007-01-19 13:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. Let them find out on their own. Don't be bitter it's very ugly. You were the one that let him get away with taking advantage of the living arrangements.
2007-01-19 13:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used not only you but also others as well. So don't let this happen to every one. Inform your friends about the guy and make them aware. And don't let happen once again to you.....
2007-01-19 13:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn your friend, if you want to help him out of the situation before he gets into it.
2007-01-19 13:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by isolatedeternity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend that the guy has a reputation for screwing people over. Once a useless mooch, always a useless mooch.
2007-01-19 13:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by luker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes!! Shout if from the tree tops...lol....Dont think for a second anyone is going to hate you for trying to do good by them. If they do then they are fools. I would want to be forewarned.
2007-01-19 13:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! tell him only of your experience, and well what he does next is really up to him, but at least you warned him.
2007-01-19 13:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋