I have been working in a doctors office and i work with this grunchy never happy office manager, and the reason that i am writting this question is because i just DO NOT know how to deal with her nasty face anymore-shes one of the worst office managers i have seen in my life--so unorganized, so mean to patients, rude all the way to everyone around-this women is in her 40's -i dont really know what he problem is anymore--i do he medical billing and everytime there is a problem she realy flips out and just is like in a mental state, always accusses me of mailing the mailings to incorrect addresses, stealing checks stamps and etc, and always just accuses me of all these things-or making errors when i didnt--- i have shut my mouth ever since i started (6 months ago) but i just cant take it anymore-- so i finally told her-what the hell is your problem with me? --ever since then she acts like WHO KNOWS WHAT-- she gets jealous so much too- i get my hair done --
2007-01-19 13:02:31 · 5 answers · asked by Misia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
and she looks at me and rolls her eyes and turns around--i wear nice clothes and always she has some wierd nasty remark to someone else and --it aggravates me so much--because all i want is to work normally and not deal with this crap--she makes me miserable --i just want HELP how to deal with a ***** LIKE THIS!!
2007-01-19 13:04:28 · update #1
The best way to change someone....is to change yourself. If you can change the way that you look at her and act polite to her while she is mean, it will soften her. In the meantime, you are looking good and professional to her and your other co-workers!
If it is so terrible, you can start looking around while you are playing it "cool". You will either find a better job or find that you are in a really good place already.
2007-01-19 14:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new job or let the physicians know how she's acting towards you and the patients.
2007-01-19 15:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another job in your spare time and when you find it move on.
2007-01-19 13:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new job maybe? sorry it's the only thing I can think of
2007-01-19 13:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by njyecats 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy her a present.
2007-01-23 08:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋