i feel crappy because my girlfriend was playing me and i broke up with her. but i still like her. but she doesn't like me. never did. and i said stuff too her i shouldn't of said. and during a dance she asked my twin brother to dance with her. he said no, but for some reason i feel more crappy. i might ask her out but she might say no. i dont what to say. HELP!!!!!!!!! codymengstrom@verizon.net
2007-01-19 13:02:16 · 21 answers · asked by codymengstrom@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing if she was playing you. Also why would you want to date someone who doesn't like you? Find someone who really does like and appreciates and Respects you. She even asked your brother to dance.
You deserve someone who likes you. It is normal to feel "crappy" when you break up with someone. Ask yourself, do you really like her? OR do you really just want to like what you wanted her to be as a person?
Find someone who you like and who likes you. There are plenty of fishes in the sea who will respect you for you. Hugs to you.
2007-01-19 13:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was playing you, why would you want to date her again. You are playing yourself. She played you the first time and you are playing yourself the second time around. I am not sure how old you are but I am going to tell you to move on with your life because you can find someone who really cares about you as much as you will care for her. I am glad that your twin told her no when she asked him to dance because that would have made you feel worst than your feeling right now. Find you a nicer girl.
2007-01-19 21:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one says things that they don't mean,but some times we say things that really hurt.You say that she said that she doesn't like you, well thats ok, i think you may find that she maybe still does.Leave her a lone for a while and don't ask her out yet.If she asked your twin to dance that sounds like she was just trying to hurt you the best way she knew how, but it didnt work. I think you may find that she may come to you later and say sorry, if she does just remember how she has hurt you.
2007-01-19 21:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by nessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If girl was playing u and asked ya bro to dance she's not the girl for you. When someone cares about u they dont' be so grimy. I say let her go and move on. People may want 2 know how old are you?
2007-01-19 21:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to decide between love and infatuation. If it's infatuation you haven't lost anything except a few tears. If the girls are playing a mean game breaking up with them is the only way to get their attention.
2007-01-19 21:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by wowwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t ask her back out. If she was playing you, you need a better girlfriend. She isn`t worth it. There are plenty of girls who would be good girlfriends. Try not to focus on this one girl. Hopefully you`ll be able to see that there are lots of girls out there who would be a lot better for you and that would treat you right. But don`t ask her back out, you`d just come across as desperate.
2007-01-19 21:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an idiot. She played you. A girl won't like you if she doesn't even respect you. Avoid her like the plague. But if you want to get back at her, sleep with her sister or best friend. If you really want to get under her skin, do her mom.
2007-01-19 21:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by brewer82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to move on.. Eventhough you still love your girlfriend. Sometimes you have to, I know its hard.. Maybe you're not destined to be togetherl. You know its okay to be on your own.. and its okay to be afraid.. At least she's not the one who broke up with you.. If you are really tired, give your heart a rest.. You dont need someone to love..
2007-01-19 21:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cyrisse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait a couple of weeks and do everything you can to get over her, but if you still can't shake her from your thoughts you should ask her out just so you have an answer and can move on either way. but she sounds like bad news.
2007-01-19 21:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by yayaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay man. if she never liked u in da 1st place then, i guess ur out da game playa. plus u said junk about her. that really tears da im sorry up. but it depends. if she is sensitive and u said sorry and not begging, u might have a chance. f shell make fun of ya din ur out.
2007-01-19 21:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by big boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋