This girl and I have good chemistry. We have good conversations and go on good dates. We are just friends that sometimes kisses and make out when the mood presents itself.The thing is that I'm not that attracted to her. She never told me I was cute, but I do think I'm good-looking enough to look at and talk to. I know she is beautiful and I know she be looking at guys that may look better than me. One time she was telling me about this guy she was attracted to and so other things about him to me. I just sat calm, smile and let the conversation flow like it was nothin. My question is should I not worry about it? Do a good man overrides girl's attractiveness to other guys? What must I do to keep and maintain her so I can go in for the "kill" later on? Was she tryin to tell me somethin on the slide? Should I play "hide and seek" for a while so she can realize my value to her? I don't know, help me on this one. ASAP
2007-01-19 12:57:14 · 2 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women usually tend to like a guy who can man-up in a situation like this one. Here are your choices, hope u can handle them:
1 Spill the beans- Man-up and tell her ur really interested on the level and want the chance to see where this is going
2 Monopolise her time, attention, and her loyalty by engaging her in challenges that will captivate her (in other words, reduce your plans to move in to a minimum and stop dragging things out)
3 Come to terms with what you have already which is a friends with benefits relationship, and enjoy the opportunity while its golden.
Either way the time for action is now. Unless you have a hiden agenda, or another love intrest, theres no need to prolong things.
2007-01-19 13:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by diggamann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she`s not your girlfriend or you two aren`t dating steadily, it shouldn`t bother you that she looks at other guys. I mean, girls with boyfriends [and/or husbands] still look at other guys. That doesn`t mean they`d rather have that other person or anything, it`s just fun to look.
Although, if you two are on a date when she`s talking about other men, just change the subject or something when there`s a pause.
2007-01-19 21:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋