35 years ago i got into a fight at school with a girl we gave each other as good as we could i was expelled from school for 3 weeks but my dad God rest his soul kicked the living daylights out of me and ever since i cannot raise my hand to hit a woman is this in my mind or my dad hitting me
2007-01-19 12:56:27 · 13 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ahh! i think maybe a bit of both . and good for you for not raising your hand to a girl ..
2007-01-19 13:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Very interesting that your dad would punish you for fighting by kicking the living daylights out of you. And then who hit him for hitting you and so on and so forth? I really don't understand your question - Why would you want to raise your hand to hit a woman? So this "in your mind or your dad hitting you" makes absolutely no sense to me at all.
2007-01-19 13:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried, the punishment your Dad gave you ha s played a part on your life in this way of thinking and great it is.
Maybe the kicking has stopped you from getting into trouble now you are an adult.
Raising your hand to hit a women why would you want to do this anyway?.
2007-01-21 01:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by SAMANTHA H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not befitting a man to hit a woman. If he does, he is less than a man. It's simply not done by a gentleman. It sounds like your dad taught you a good lesson, but I can't say I approve of his method in doing so.
2007-01-19 13:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on your Morals that your dad has instilled in you.
Hitting women is wrong without any exceptions.
Ive had the s#@t beaten out of me by 2 girlfriends (once i deserved it lol) and never fought back.
There is nothing wrong with you, quite the opposite. Its a shame parents dont discipline kids anymore
2007-01-20 04:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame all the wife beaters didn't get the same treatment as a child. There's nothing wrong with you, raising your hand to a woman is WRONG
2007-01-20 12:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you learned your lesson well. I was never allowed to hit my little brother. And I would not hit anyone unless some guy hit me first. There was this girlfriend who made me fantasize about punching her out. I never did,of course. It was just easier not to see her anymore.
2007-01-19 13:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you've just learned your lesson. plain and simple, you hit girl>> dad hits you (god bless him), if you hit another girl now who knows who's going to beat you up next.
2007-01-19 13:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by MoRoCcAn_GiRl 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I salute you colin you sound a really nice person,youre a true gentleman
2007-01-20 04:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by LYNDA M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was ashamed and it was not just about the girl but he probably felt angry at you being expelled, my grandaughter has been expelled and i am angry at her doing this to me. She is so naughty and disrespectful.
2007-01-19 13:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋