Me and my girlfriend are both 13 and we have been going out for about 6 months. The other day we went to the movies and we started making out. We were alone in the theater and I dont no what happened but I slid my hand down under her and slid my fingers in her. She didn't stop me and she didn't seem to care but I am still worried about what would happen in the future if we were to break up. What are the possible repercussions of this?
2007-01-19 12:55:06 · 39 answers · asked by james 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure you will find out.
2007-01-19 12:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about the repercussions, there won't be any. Neither one of you did anything wrong, it is perfectly natural. The only thing I would worry about the next time you are both alone that you learn to contain yourself a little more. You both need to be careful, and practise a lot of self control. Next time you won't be able to stop and could end up having intercourse. Always make sure that you stay in a public place when you are together, and get sex educated.
2007-01-19 13:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you guys are way too young to be involved in sexual activites, even if you have been together for six months. You guys are young and have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't make mistakes that most people make because you will just end up regretting them. True love is not about proving that you can be sexual with someone. True love waits!
If she didn't stop you while you were doing this than there is nothing she can do. The worst thing she can do is tell people what you did and spread rumors or something. I wouldn't worry about it. From now on, Don't be involved in sexual activites! You are too young and don't need to be having children when you are just a child yourself!
2007-01-19 13:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Were you just trying to feel her up for the fun of it? Or are you wanting a relationship with this girl? If she was okay with everything, then don't worry about it. Go out again and discuss what happened, see if she is really okay. If yes then go out and have fun together. If you do decide to go further next time, just make sure to practice safe sex, and find a more private atmosphere.
2007-01-19 13:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are exploring so you didn't do anything wrong. It might have been kind of akward so don't worry. The only options are ya'll stay together and nothing happens, ya'll stay together and have protected sex or may be ya'll may break up but it won't be because you fingered her. So in a nutshell don't fear just be cool and be smart. Don't treat her as an object but as a person and things will remain great. Also if push comes to shove, you should ask her how she feels about it
2007-01-19 13:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by King Davin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are both 13, that is the kind of stuff that kids your age do.
I don't think that you have done anything wrong and I wouldn't worry to much.
Talk to your girlfriend about it... ask her how she felt. If it made you or her uncomfortable, just don't do it again.
You should really wait much longer to have sex though... this was exploration and if it goes not farther then you are OK.
2007-01-19 13:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop now and keep your hands off of other people's private parts for at least the next 4 or so years. Kids y'alls age have NO business "making out". The path that could lead you down is one you do NOT want to walk at your age.
2007-01-19 12:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You guys arent ready for making out. That behavior leads to heavier making out which leads to you becoming a Daddy. Stick with just going to the movies and keep your hands in your own lap.
2007-01-19 12:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Darktania 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the same consequence you are experiencing right now which is guilt and shame. You asked about possible repercussions which are---the two of you eventually engaging in adult behavior and by this I mean having sexual intercourse.
2007-01-19 13:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, you shouldn't have done it. You two should think about what you're really doing. You know you're not really ready for what the true meaning of a relationship is, or for what the true meaning of a sexual relationship is. At least you know it was something big that you will remember for the rest of your life. I can guarantee you that you will regret it later in life.
2007-01-19 13:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time take and adult to the movies.. and besides u are too young to be dating .. WhAT the hell is going on in this world.. You should be worrying about ur studies and video games..
2007-01-19 13:05:28 · answer #11 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋