I know this girl and she is sexy. Her face is drop dead gorgeous, but she is fat. A usually date women who are slim or average size. I never dated a girl who was bigger than me. When I see her somehow I still am turned on by her. My friends say that Im turning into a chubby chaser, but I actually really want to ask her out. She dresses really good and she always has her eye make up done really sexy around her eyes. We laugh and crack jokes every time I see her and I know Im not the only one because a couple of other people who said they know her thought she looked good too for a vuluptuos woman. What do ya think?
2007-01-19 12:37:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look if its just her weight, SHE CAN ALWAYS LOOSE IT !
if you really like her, go for it!
2007-01-19 12:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honey, you need to pay more attention to the person inside the package. I think you should listen to your "inner self" because if you're attracted to the lady in question regardless of the fact that she doesn't fit the societal norm sizewise, then you are on the right track!! Disregard what your friends say; they should only want you to be happy & the looks ought not matter that much. Sounds to me like this chick keeps herself up, knows how to make the most of what she has, has an awesome personality & a whole lot going for her! Go for it - make BOTH of you happy!! Believe me, size isn't supposed to matter - the person inside does! I'm "big" but I've never ever had trouble with dating, boyfriends, etc. Be smart & more mature than other folks in your age group; go for what makes you happy! Good luck & let me know how it goes - I'd love to think that ya'll would hit it off & have a great future!!! Don't let this one get away!!
2007-01-19 12:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me...? Of course you should ask her out! You sound like you are really interested in her. I am an aerobic instructor and I gained 40 pounds myself in last two years, and it doesn't make me any less of an person to be worthy for dating and finding interesting people in my life. So, weight should not be an issue. If it'll be in the way later you can always get rid of it. Gaining weight does not change the person inside and that's what should matter! Sounds like an cliche but is true in the end!
2007-01-19 12:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by nhala 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that you are really into her...so what if she is a little heavy? You cannot always listen to what everyone else thinks, you have to go with your heart. If you give her a chance, you might realize that this was the person you were meant to be with. Also, her weight might be something she isn't comfortable with, so being or getting close to you could help her overcome her insecurities and she might end up losing some weight. You could have the power to instill confidence in her. I say go for it...what do you have to lose?
2007-01-19 12:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't care <3 If her friends disagree then they aren't being true friends. Looks will never make you feel the way you do. The looks aren't giving you the butterflies, the personality. She should go for him. Chances are he will give her all the respect that the popular guys never will. True love will never end because of looks <3
2016-03-29 05:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find her attractive then ask her out.. you need to stop an think does it really matter what your frinds think as long as your happy.. My brother is gettin married in March to a Big gurl(or fat as you put it i dont like that word) an he is happy his buddies laughed an poked fun at him for a long time an some still do but he dont care cause he is happy...
2007-01-19 12:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You make fun of her around your friends, but you want to stick your d*ck inside her?
Wow, yeah, YOU will be a great boyfriend.
Grow up.
She deserves someone better than you.
One day a woman will laugh about how small your penis is and you will realize how bad that sh*t hurts.
2007-01-19 12:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Aint nothing wrong with dating a big girl. If you like her why not try to go for the prize. Try new things
2007-01-19 12:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by lissa 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think if that's what you love, there's more to love. I met some fat girls who had amazingly pretty faces and smiles, and a personality to back it up...but to me I think every single person is gorgeous in their own way.
2007-01-19 12:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Coalie 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
its good that you have a mind of your own,too many people are told what to think and do and feel.
you are attracted to her for good reason,be a man and go with your gut.
good luck to an independent thinker,you are few and far between.
2007-01-19 12:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well,i think everyone deserves a chance.
this really big kid liked me once & i didn`t
wanna be mean,but i didn`t wanna lead
him on either.so eventually we started
being friends & he was a real sweet person.[=
& yeah we didn`t go outtt but if he had asked
me out a second time,i just might have said yes.
2007-01-19 12:41:08 · answer #11 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋