one of my x-boyfriends came up to me today and asked me back out. we dated a couple of months ago. our relationship lasted a week. we broke up because things weren't working out. i also still had feelings for a guy that i really love. so i felt like i wasn't being fair to him by going out with him when i had feelings for another guy. should i give this guy a second chance with me. it's not that i dont; like him and that i wouldn't go out with him. i just still have feelings for another guy. so i feel like i wouldn't be fair by going out with my x-boyfriend when i really love another guy who i can never be with again. what should i do?
2007-01-19 12:23:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i don't think u should get back with him.
2007-01-19 12:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by sammydoobean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you can never be with the guy you "love" again, then get closure to that sitation. You are hanging on to it because you want to, but why? All you are doing is wasting time on something you don't believe can ever be...
...in the meantime, no you should not date when you are hung up on someone else. Think about how you'd feel if you learned a guy you liked and was dating, was actually still pining for someone else. It's not very flattering, is it?
Get over the "ex-love" so you can move forward and enjoy dating and other potential relationships...even if you never dated again, hanging on to the "love" that cannot be, isn't productive or healthy.
2007-01-19 20:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought he might just be using you? Eather that, or maybe he really does have strong feelings for you. For the other guy, you might want to see if really does like you first, before you dump your ex. O.K that sounds pretty stupid, dumping your ex. So give your ex a chance, but if that doesn't work out, learn more about the other guy!
2007-01-19 20:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be with the guy you love, so having feelings for him is going to do nothing but make you sad
Your x will take much better care of you anyways, and maybe you will begin to love him
2007-01-19 20:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only went out for a week? that's not a boyfriend. Tell him you'll go to dinner with him. Make it an early evening and just enjoy yourself. Don't get so complicated and over analyze. Treat it as an experiment to see if you can overcome your paralysis by analysis and just do it. Challenge yourself.
2007-01-19 20:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's with the hanging on to the past nonsense! You need to give up on the guy you "still have feelings for" and get on with your life.
2007-01-19 20:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably shouldnt go back out with him if you still have feelings for the other guy as you said it wouldnt be fair and you should just tell him this
2007-01-19 20:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him down nicely why complicate things.
2007-01-19 20:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don go out wif him~! tell him you have feelings 4 another guy he would understand~!
2007-01-19 20:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should maybe it is your chance to forget that guy whom your feelings belong
2007-01-19 20:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by dantistryfiliya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋