We've been shaky for several weeks now. I think after being together for a year reality has finally set in. I still have feelings for her and miss her. We haven't spoken for a couple of days. But the question is, if and when we do speak, shud we try to work things out and just break up. Taking a break is OK and all, but I feel like I won't be able to move in either direction unless we have a more direct intention. It was just left opened ended, as in, I just need some time. And so I said, well then we will talk when we talk. Shud I finally try to get things moving in a particular direction? Get back together? Or just move on?
2007-01-19 12:08:20 · 14 answers · asked by questionmarc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there, its up to you if you want to move on or not. and you can ask God to help you out with this he will help you. he is there for you. good luck on it.
2007-01-19 12:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I just got an expression you are really selfish person. You know, in my country, when you propose somebody that means you want to spend your hole life with that person. So, how come u want all that with the person you don't trust to? And, do you ever think about her feelings? She said "yes", so I guess she loves you (I wouldn't say it if I didn't ).And now, all of a sudden u come and say :"What do you think for us to take a little break? You know, I don't trust you enough and I just don't want to worry if you are gonna cheat on me, 'cause it'd be really humiliated to me. But of course, when we meet again we can just start over and everything is gonna be ok". I think she's gonna be thrilled:-). And imagine the future...r u gonna ask her if she wants divorce you every time she visits her parents without you? You just have to learn that there are persons who deserve to be trusted to, and if you might cheat on her, that doesn't mean she is gonna do the same thing to you.
2016-05-23 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, fight like hell for it. But if you feel that the shakiness of your relationship with her isnt worth all the pain then move on. But more than anything talk to her. tell her how YOU feel. get her to tell you how SHE feels. and if you're lucky, maybe that in itself will solve your problems. oh and whatever you do, stay faithful to her during your break. because its not a break up, you're technically still together and trust me, that makes the situation so much worse
2007-01-19 12:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, I believe it s time you moved on if you haven't worked things out by now. A relationship isn't about taking a break from each other, but taking the time to work out the issues that you two are experiencing.
2007-01-19 12:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are ready to talk, so talk to her. Find out what you want to do. I am sure you are young and in love, but things change and you just have to move on to find the one you want.
2007-01-19 12:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the entire situation here but i would Call her!!! who cares who calls who first. best way to deal with it is to get to the point and stop wasting time wondering. if she says she wants more time give her time and go out and enjoy yourself with some friends... who knows... maybe someone else will come into the picture that you like more. she had her chance when you called her.
2007-01-19 12:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean what "should" you do?...you never said whos idea it was to tke a break, if it was hers and shes not telling you when you will get back together thats sort of a sign that things are going no where..
2007-01-19 12:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been lucky enough to find someone you love and the only thing that matters is that you are together. Go after her proove to her that you love her.
2007-01-19 12:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by wynesworld10000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her!!!
Call her and ask her if she is seeing other people....
What "taking a break" means to her.
And if you miss her, tell her!
no reason to be in limbo!
2007-01-19 12:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all up to you. ask urself if you want to keep waiting for her or not. ask urself if you want to be with her or not.. and if you say yes to wanting to be with her.. tell her that ... but if u dont want to be with her.. move on. theres plenty fishes in the sea.. but if shes the only one you see.. then she would be worth waiting for. just dont let it keep you down. good luck. [;
2007-01-19 12:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋