Okay, i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and I think he wants to take our sex life to a new level and have anal sex. We have tried but have not accomplished because it was very painful for me. Does anyone know anyways to make the pain feel any better?
2007-01-19 11:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Working on the assumption that you really are old enough to be asking this question the advise about lube is good but you also need to work up to it gradually. Start with a finger, then two. Practice clenching and relaxing your sphincter muscles. Finally, when you are relaxed and really want to do it, apply lube inside and out, not just on the surface, and back up onto him. Just a little at first and see if you like it. That way you can control the pace and get yourself used to the feeling. When your ready and really into it, you'll know when that is, you can have him take off. It needs to be something that you both enjoy. Don't pay much attention to all the horror stories and old wives tails that are told about anal by people who don't know. Good luck.
2007-01-22 16:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Barb S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to go slow and use lots of lubricant. He needs to put it on himself and inside you as well. If you don't feel comfortable, then he has to agree to stop. Even with a lot of lubricant, it can still be painful. Most women don't like it.
2007-01-20 05:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not into it myself - but if you're going to do it, use a good lubricant. I've been told that Astroglide is definitely the best. Good luck.
2007-01-19 20:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Marko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you before I answer this?
2007-01-19 20:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Arwen G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋