My husband has been sick for 3 out of our 4 year marriage. It has been very difficult for both of us. I only recently let myself realize my feelings for the other man. I won't leave my husband. We're a til death do us part couple. How can I handle being in love with 2 men, espeically brothers?
2007-01-19 11:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Patience G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have been through 3 years of illness with my husband and supported him every inch of the way. Marriage is not something I take lightly. I love him dearly. We have not had an intimate relationship for abou 2 1/2 years. It's not that I don't love him because I do. I also have strong feelings for his brother, whether it's lust or love. Maybe it's just a need for companionship. Help?
2007-01-19 13:56:29 · update #1
stay with your husband! you agreed "till death do us part". Your husban cant help if he's been sick! what if you were in that position would you want you husband leaving you for you sister b/c you were sick!!!
2007-01-19 12:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by ஐKatஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in the relationship, don't stay with it because you are a "till death do us part" couple. However, you may just be frustrated because of your quick joining. Have you tried couples' therapy? Don't blame your husband's sickness on the relationship issues, instead you should be supporting him.
As for "being in love with 2 men" I'd suggest looking at what you consider love because I'm in love with one man and I can't see being with another. That's what being "in love" means. Lust is another story...
good luck with your situation
2007-01-19 12:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Answers4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of till death do you apart if you don't have feelings for your husband. Go see a marriage counselor before deciding anything.
2007-01-19 12:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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