in a letter to my boyfriend if he dumped me, but i want him back? do i say i want to offer him a second chance? or should i just forgot about it cuz he's the one that dumped me and he should be the one doing the asking?
2007-01-19 11:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by it.was.your.idea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should just say how you feel and see if he feels the same and take it from there.
2007-01-19 11:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you he should be the one doing the asking by far. Because if he really wants to be with you then, he will confront you and talk to you about what happened the last time you guys went out and how to fix it so that you guys dont have anymore problems. If you ask him to be back with you, there's a chance that he doesnt want to and why would you want to be with someone that doesnt wanna be with you? You don't. So let him come back to you.
2007-01-19 19:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you, you shouldn't be asking him back. Well, maybe if you fund out why he dumped you and you do or don't do the reason why he dumped you maybe he'll want you back like you want him. Thats all I got..
2007-01-19 19:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by El 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you, she should be asking you for another chance. if you still like him and you would want to get back together with him, I'd say tell him that you're willing to give it another go.
good luck.
2007-01-19 19:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by org13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't lower my standards by writing him a letter. Ignore the place where
you would come in contact with him, and go on with your life.
2007-01-19 19:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not want someone who dumps you...
thats not a nice healthy beautiful relationship...
there are better men out there...believe that!
but if u insist to write this boy....but express all thats on your mind as well as in your heart...start with
dear exboyfriend,
2007-01-19 19:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't write anything, just move on. If you write something it should always be postive becuase once it is in writing and it is bad, it could come to hunt you someday.
2007-01-19 19:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back, you have to look him in the eye and tell him.
You need to see his reaction to know if he really wants you back
It is very scary, but you need to do it
2007-01-19 19:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by boobboo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget about it and let him do it because then you would seem a little desperate and he wouldn't take you back.
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2007-01-19 19:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by daisymoomoocow7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dumped you ...why would you write anything....get over it....move on and ignore him
2007-01-19 19:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋