i met this guy about a month ago. i was instantly drawn to him. i had a boyfriend at the time, but we actually broke up the next day. so i saw him on new year's eve, told him about my boyfriend & i, and we just talked for a while. the next weekend, i went to the bar at about 1am. his friend saw me, said hi, & immediately pulled his phone out & walked away. a few minutes later, the hot guy walked in. i talked to him for a minute, then i left a little while later. i was sitting in my car and i saw him look out the window at me then he walked outside, came to my window. he was liek lets do something, so we left and just talked for a couple hours, and eventually he kissed me, & after getting into it a bit, i told him i wasn't going to have sex with him. he told me he wasn't expecting me to... eventually he brought me home, but he didn't ask for my number or anything. does it sound like this guy just wanted to sleep with me? or did it seem like he wanted more but maybe i offended him?
2007-01-19 11:10:41 · 14 answers · asked by pete54409 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep!That's what all guys want.
2007-01-19 11:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by muttbob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably didin't take any of this as seriously as you did. Girls observe so much and dewl on thing and think things out in a complicated way, then over analyze things. Guys just are.......they don't think like girls do. They don't read in to things like girls do. A talk is just a talk, where as to a girl a long talk means there is a relationship starting.
If he sincerely liked you he would of kept in contact.
NO NO you shouldn't of offered or worried about offending him.
A conversation and some kisses do not make a relationship.
2007-01-19 19:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he was looking for a booty call. No guy, after spending any amount of time in a bar is willing to sit and talk for hours. He only wanted one thing.
The reason the meeting draged out is he knew he wasn't going to get laid, but was hoping if he stayed with you long enough you might change your mind.
So, yeah.. he was looking to get laid and was willing to play the game in hopes of a successful ending. Game over. He lost. But will be back out tomorrow trying the samething on someone else.
be careful....
2007-01-19 19:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard telling..some guys only want sex and thats it..some want more than that...only thing to do is just wait see if you guys run into each other agian..maybe he just forgot to ask for your number..and if he brought you home then he knows where you live at least...just wait and see what happens..or you can try and find his number somewhere or from someone. and you guys can talk...he could have been offended by you saying that making him think thats all you thought he was think of..good luck
2007-01-19 19:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think the guy was offended at all. if anything he sounds like a gentleman for not making any moves on you!
he knew to back off because YOUR INVOLVED. you told him so quite rightly, and he's obviously not the type to cheat.
unfortunately your hands are tied. if your in a loving relationship work on it!! if not, get yourself out of it so you can be free to test the waters with this new guy.
2007-01-19 19:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by emzc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but it seems like he only wanted sex.... even tho there was no way for you to know he seemed pretty intrested in you, but if he didnt ask for your number or anything probably it was a one night stand for him
2007-01-19 19:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after you saying ur not going to have sex with him, ge felt a bit scared to ask for ur number, he prob thinks he will bump in to you again.
if you do bump in to him again, dont mention anything, and see how it goes ie if he asks for ur number, if not ask him would he like it.
2007-01-19 19:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted some booty. He still wants some booty. He was disappointed and forgot to ask for your number. Is all he want is sex? I don't know but he does some.
2007-01-19 19:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by The Last Good Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say.
You should be careful when you meet guys when you are in a vulnerable state. Glad you didn't.
2007-01-19 19:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would have tried harder to get you in bed but did not --- wait and see if he get in touch with you and you go out he wants to know you otherwise chalk it up to a nice night and nothing more (i assume it was a pleasant evening)
2007-01-19 19:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were played by a group, and just happened to stop it.
2007-01-19 19:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by chapman_red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋