ok... this guy.. i fell in love.. he fell in love wit me
he said he didnt want to lose me.. i thought he was the one
then whoosh... he meets someone else... breaks up with me..
says he loves her.. to me....
says he doesnt want to lose her...
wait.. didnt he say that to me?
i want to forget him coz my freinds say so and.. idk wat to do but everytime i talk ot him i get the feeling where u just.. .cant stop thinking about him
i emailed him and i hope he emails me back.. .i wanted to know what he was thinking and why he had to say all those things and then stab me in the heart like that...
i want to forget him and move on but... i love him too much... practically obsessed... please help me.. what should i do? if he runs bakc to me like he did b4.... shoudl i take him back?
2007-01-19 11:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by anna h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.. i'm not pratically obsessed.. i'm obsessed and... love doesnt suck but... i just thought he was the one that's all
2007-01-19 11:21:12 · update #1
Hun, when a person says they want something, in this case, not to lose love, they mean it. Nobody "wants" to lose love. But wants change over time, and there are many different degrees of love. There's a good chance that he didn't know what he really wanted, but that's normal. Most people don't. And when it comes down to the wire, you have to know what you want more. Right now it seems like you want him back. But you seem unsure. My advice to you would be to search your feelings, and see if you really truly -want- him back? And if you do, do you know if you'll be able to trust him enough, and have faith in him enough that he knows himself?
I'm not saying you should or shouldn't take him back, because that's up to you and you alone. But I wouldn't take him back right away if I were you. Give him time to grow and learn from his actions, and if you find that you still love him after he's matured from this, then I'd say give it a shot. ^.-.^
Best wishes,
Mr. Ryuu A. Wood, the Dragon Man.
2007-01-19 11:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ryuu C. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not practically obsessed... you are.
Look at the facts -- the guy is either a liar or has an incredibly short attention span when it comes to women. Either way, bad news. He makes you feel good, and then turns on you. These are signs of a potential abuser; this is NOT a situation that you want to be in. See him for who he is, not for who you thought he was or wish he was. Do that honestly, and you'll be over this scumbag in no time.
2007-01-19 11:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt suck you just havent met the right person. That guy sounds like a total jerk. I know ur inlove with him but move on. Go out with ur friends, go shopping have fun, go out with another guy. Get ur mind off of things. If this guy try to come back to you i think u should tell him no. He doesnt deserve you.If he really loved you he wouldnt have left u for another women.
2007-01-19 11:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey..you are obsessed..get over him and move on..he didn't have any problem did he? Don't believe this fool.If someone likes you..you couldn't keep him away.
Do not take him back...
2007-01-19 11:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he wasn't worth your time. i know if feels like the world stopped and your hurt. as time pass on you will get over this.Take this time to get to know yourself and find out what you really want.Just remeber that whats to come is better than whats been. Better is coming
2007-01-19 11:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by the gr8one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if love didn't suck, no one would be interested in it at all. Go figure. In the name of the rolling stones: you can't always get what you want....but if you try sometimes, you just might find- you get what you need!
2007-01-19 11:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld never take him back if he comes
cuz he went with somebody else when u needed him
so now when he will need u dnt accept him
so he will learn a lesson and wont do tht to any other girls
u shld never take him back if i would b there i would never take him back trust mee!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 11:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by PriNceSz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, dude- he's whack.....and that's definitely not love....lust is the devil
2007-01-19 11:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by mfn_rockstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's a idiot. u deserve more. good luck
2007-01-19 11:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk....noooooo do not take him back...
2007-01-19 11:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋