I can't stop thinking about him so I get new bfs but they don't take my mind off him. He is now dating my bff some one please help me?
2007-01-19 11:05:28 · 10 answers · asked by Kim M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with his best friend!
2007-01-19 11:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dethruhate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - if your bff is dating your ex your bff is no bff. If your bff was really a bff your bff would understand and know how you feel.
- Move on. His lost. Think about it. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
- Don't play the game.
- You'll find someone else who will love you for you and thats what you want!
- All break ups are hard. Give it time and you'll be ok. But bouncing from bf to bf is not good. Stick to dating for awhile.
2007-01-19 19:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, apparently she's not much of a 'bff'! Secondly, move on! If he dumped you then the more you try and get back with him, the more you're just going to stroke his ego. Forget about him and chalk it up as a lesson learned. More importantly, is figuring out why he dumped you. How was the relationship going during the time he dumped you? That's a question you need to ask yourself. Maybe you two just weren't very compatible and he was able to discover it before you.
2007-01-19 19:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by 821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer.
Take a break!!! Think about your bf but also think about why he is an ex. I mean, if he dumped you, he's not this great guy you think him to be. Mabye he's a self centered jerk. Think about WHY you put him on a pedistal and ask yourself how IMPORTANT YOU are. Mabye dating somebody who CARES about you is important too?
Don't date more guys until you answer questions about yourself and who YOU are. Start doing activities not involving dating. Join clubs etc. DATE A GUY BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM NOT BECUASE YOU NEED HIM.
2007-01-19 19:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard to stop thinking about this guy, if your friends wont help you get your mind off him then you have to try yourself..look around and see if there are any other guys you like...just start looking more at other guys and one day you will like somebody else and will forget about him..just think to yourself that you and him didnt work out..he doesnt care about you the way you want him when ever you think about him...and try and get him off your mind...go shopping buy yourself something nice..new outfit or something make yourself feel good and make him wish he never broke up with you.
2007-01-19 19:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Heather S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel! after that its up to him to do something about it, i would not build ur hopes up on this one though, its very hard but maybe you need to be single for a short while now, there is no cure to get over this but simply time.
2007-01-19 19:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance, dump him. To get over him fast, sleep with his best friend and let them know that's what gone down. Don't hide. But please don't go back to him after this.
And don't ever call her your bff cos she's not.
2007-01-19 19:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so need to forget about him try going out meeting new guy its not very healthy to be thinking about him for so long your only hurting yurself
2007-01-19 19:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste any more time with him....OR her! Move on. Trust me, there are lots of guys out there. One of them will treat you the way you should be treated!
2007-01-19 19:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on forget about him he is an assho**
2007-01-19 19:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋