why do guys do this? your opinion wanted!?

Question

my ex boyfriend and i are back together but he never really asked me out.
he just assumes we are going out.
i like him a lot but i'd feel more secure if he just asked me out but he doesn't think he has to since we've been hanging out over 2 months and things are just how they used to be.
how do i drop him the hint i want him to finally ask me out without it being awkward?
or do you think i should just not bring it up and just be happy with what i got?

Answer 1

Well that is not only a guy thing. I saw that same thing from my ex.
Its a subconscious animal instinct in all of us Territorial protection of self-perseverance type thing. Good question though. It helps me realize that its not just i problem in my book of life.
Thanx

Answer 2

I think you should definetly have a talk with him about it. He may act like youre back together but he could be out seeing other girls too because you two arent really "official", ya know? You need to know where you stand with him. Have a talk with him & try to get him to open up as much as possible....make sure you say whats on your mind too.

Answer 3

If he isn't asking you out by now I would dump him. He doesn't seem like a very romantic type, or the type that is daring and bold.

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Answer 4

don't put out. When he tries, tell him you'll only do that with people who've asked you out.

If you're past that point again, then tough. Get over the semantics of it.

Answer 5

well its up to u. if u want more in your life then go for it. but if your already happy then leave it alone. good luck

Answer 6

you should tell him it bugs you. 2 months or not its nice to hear those words.

Answer 7

leave well enough alone

Answer 8

this happened because you let it happen