Black Christian girl with white atheist?

Question

I am mostly black, and my almost boyfriend is white, this is not the problem though.

Well you see I am a Christian and my almost boyrfriend doesn't believe in God. God is a major influence in my life and right now I was hoping that we could work with this but lately I am just feeling too guilty about it.

What should I do? He is really sweet and has the most embracing smile!!!

I implied race to simply describe us, and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with the reason I asked the question. I don't care if he were black, blue or purple. I'm not feeling guilty about the fact that we would be interracial, I've mostly dated interracial since I have been able to date.

What I feel guilt about is what another poster said about being unequally yoked in religion. So please know that this has nothing to do with race, I don't know why I even put it in the title!

Answer 1

I honestly can't figure out why you even brought color into this. You say that it isn't a problem but you brought it up. This makes me think that it really is an issue, maybe it bothers you subconsciously. You should spend some time thinking about this and be honest with yourself...just to make sure.

The difference in religious beliefs can be a problem if each of you isn't comfortable with the other one's beliefs. However plenty of people have successful relationships with partners who have different beliefs. It really depends on how committed the couple is.

Answer 2

I am a atheist and I hate no one. Hate is an extremely strong word that I do not like to use, especially if it is against other people of different religions and backgrounds. I went to a high school with the majority of black and Hispanics and a large portion of us got along very well. The blacks loved listening to Spanish and dancing. They really embraced the Spanish culture. I'm sure there was a few who hated, we did have a few whites, but I did not hear of any serious racial tension.

Answer 3

The Bible says don't be unequally yolked with unbelievers. You need to have the same beliefs. What does light have to do with darkness. If you can "convert" him, this would be ok. Pray God to connect you to the right person. By the way, the Bible doesn't say anything about race, as we are all human.

Answer 4

An unequaled yoke .I didn:t understand your two almost,It is or isn:t,Gods word, don"t yoke up with a non Believer.I imagine Eve
could have told Adam,,the same about the Serpant, smooth and
great smile.Two words to Him" Good By."

Answer 5

You should date whoever you like and start applying some critical thinking skills into your life. Follow your boyfriend's example. By the way, an interracial couple really isn't all that shocking.

Answer 6

better think abou it some more, from the Christian/atheist stand point. Don't fall for sweet smiles, Baby. You know what the Bible says about being unequally yoked, don't you. Talk to your pastor or his wife or your Sunday School teacher.

Answer 7

I respect your standing and conviction, but you must respect his as well. If you feel that strongly to develop a guilty tone, then you should look in toward yourself and ask if you are really living the life your religion preaches. My personal standing is one like your boyfriends, If he is like me than he is accepting of you and your beliefs. You can learn a lot about yourself from the actions you take toward those with opposing views of your own.

Answer 8

Well, your religious differences shouldn't be a barrier to you making a great couple.

But on the other hand, you've got to have something more substantial than a smile to base it on.

Back to you, sister.

Answer 9

Thats great that hes a nice guy, but hes not anyone that you should be in a relationship with. It would be much easier for him to bring you down. Dont completly cut of contact with him, befriend him and just open your heart, but I dont think that you should be dating.

Answer 10

If you truly love God, and have a relationship with Him, you know the answer already...