My bf cheated on me 2 yrs ago with a woman who has since become a "friend". I can't really trust her. My bf and I have broken up. He's mentally really messed up, he's in jail now for harassing me & my daughters. We were engaged and we even got a marriage license but he still got online and asked women for sex and was telling them that he wanted to marry them...WTF?? Well, anyways, the Xgf lives over 600 miles away, I spilled my guts, told her he was in jail etc. She told me, be strong , get over him, its better for your girls. Now yesterday shes emailing me saying "I think he's trying to email me" I told her they have no computers in our jails here. And she writes me back last night saying "Oh yes, they have computers in jail, I think he was trying to contact me". Gee, I was only trying to warn her about him getting out of jail, he's a cheater and has been with lots of sluts with no protection. Now it sounds like she wants him back. Is this 'normal' bi polar behavior?
2007-01-19 10:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by diecast_heart 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
WEll for starters get that thought out of your head "NORMAL BIPOLAR BEHAVIOR" there is no such thing... bi-polar is also known as manic depressive.. you have the very high invincible days and you have the very low painful days..your guy sounds more like he has an obsessive personality which many people who are bi-polar have also. Some people become obsessed with something and dont even realize it... Your guy has more than one issue and he needs SERIOUS mental health help! He also sounds like a compulsive liar so.. good luck i guess?
2007-01-19 11:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! without medication and therapy!!!!!!!!! I am biplar as well, and had some of the similar problems your friend has! But when I got suicidal AGAIN, I went to the doctor. I have worked in the mental health field for the last 10 yrs., and was fortunate enough to realize I had a problem.
Bipolars has strong sex drives, and can become addicted to sex. They also can be alcoholics/addicts.(I have 8-9 yrs of sobriety) It's a way of turning our HEADS OFF so we can either sleep, or stay awake! When mainc, we have behaviors that are "risky" without being afraid of the consequences. If your b/f isn't willing to take medication, get in therapy, get help and admit if he has a drug problem, or alcohol problem, then he is willing to allow his mental illness to controll him, and uses it for an excuse for bad choices and behavior. YOU NEED TO LEARN ALL YOU CAN ABOUT BIPOLAR and then make a decision, what YOU WANT in your life!?
Bipolar is an illness, not an excuse for bad behavior!
2007-01-19 19:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible bi polar behaviour however not all do these type of things to others it sounds like he needs meds
2007-01-19 19:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bipolar mania makes even the best people do sexually irresponsible things.
2007-01-19 19:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sticky situation
2007-01-19 18:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋