My best friend's boyfriend Kyle and i are really really close friends. My friend thinks i'm trying to steal her boyfriend from her, but i'm not. We are just really close. What should i do about this?
2007-01-19 10:51:09 · 20 answers · asked by phsgirl33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems your friend is having jealousy issues. i know you are close with the guy also, just make sure not to put yourself in a situation that could be misconstrued. sit down and have a real talk with your friend. you definetely don't want to lose a friendship but its not fair to shut the guy out totally either. perhaps you should step back for a while until their relationship is more established. bottom line though if she is your best friend, she obviously must trust you, and if she trusts you this shouldn't be a big issue. maybe she doesn't trust her boyfriend. sticky situation, hope things work out for you.
2007-01-19 10:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by frustrated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about Kyle if you want to keep your best friend.
2007-01-19 18:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Fish <>< 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may be hard to do i think you should try your best to keep your distance from there relationship because if they break up there is a strong possibility that your friend might blame it on you.
2007-01-19 18:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never work, your friendship. So you have to choose! Actually if she really is your friend maybe you should step aside don't come between their relationship and let them be together. Unless you do like him. Think about it!
2007-01-19 18:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends the truth and see what she says.
You can also talk to Kyle and tell him to tell you best friend its not what is looks like.
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2007-01-19 18:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by daisymoomoocow7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would think that you aren't really all that old. SO if you really like this guy keep it to yourself. Your friend is more important. Guys will come and go but, good friends don't come as often.
And your name says you love ADAM.
What up with that?
2007-01-19 18:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by sleepy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. and first of all, if she knew u and knew u wouldnt do that kinda crap to her since u guys are good friends, then thats messed up for her to even think that. tell her she should b trusting you and u wouldnt want crap like this to end ur guys's friendship. who cares if u guys are close!! you guys are FRIENDS thats all. and u oviously should tell her that u respect that her and her bf are together and wouldnt do anything to hurt her or their relationship.
2007-01-19 18:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by heartagram97x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget kyle, continue your friendship with your friend.
your friendship may last longer than a relationship, if you were to have one with him though.
2007-01-19 18:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by S. Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact:Best Friends,Make the best Lovers... Eventually he'll want more than friendship from you!!!!
2007-01-19 18:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you back off. She is your best friend and although she may have some insecurities, only bad will come of this if you carry on. I know you and he have the right to do what you please with whom you please but it will end in tears.
My younger sister is 15 and all her mates have bf's, she doesn't but she gets on so well with all her mates bf's but they get funny with her because she doesn't have a bf. Its silly but you could end up losing him and her over it.
Talk to your friend as well.
2007-01-19 18:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋