he doesn't give me money......so this is the only way i can go to salons and shopping and girly stuff like that....i feel kind of bad because last month i took his money and he didn't have enough to pay his car note.......he had to call his parents.....really embarrassing.......do you think he knows i do it? i've just been blaming it on his roommate.
2007-01-19 10:34:44 · 52 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's wrong, it's called stealing!
2007-01-19 10:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are dangerous and immature. I say this from a male's point a view because first you are stealing from someone that you suppose to love, respect and care about and you have wronged him. Next, you are about to start trouble by lying on his roommate saying he (the roommate) stole his money. Don't you know there are people in this world that actually get killed for stealing other people's property? What if your boyfriend snaps and end up hurting his roommate? If you want "girly stuff" get a job and not depend on a man. Grow up and act like a lady not a thief. If you do not straighten up, you will (if you already haven't) become a Kleptomanic and your stealing will be become a problem (stealing from stores, etc.).
2007-01-19 10:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he knows you're doing it then he is not a smart man. Not only are you stealing but you are being dishonest. Don't expect to last long in this relationship.
If you really needed money to go shopping and stuff, you should have asked to borrow money. I'm not going to go into detail about how stupid it is to even steal for things like that because you must already know.
Bottom line, quit while you're ahead, what you've done is unforgiveable and I hope for your sake and his that you stop and give the guy some respect.
2007-01-19 10:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Magz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl its wrong no matter which way you try to justify it.... First of all he is your boyfriend not your husband. Second of all you its wrong otherwise you wouldnt be blaming it on his roomate which is even worse.... dont you think thats kind of manipulating and selfish. If you really want to go shopping and all that nice girly stuff why dont you get your OWN money and do with it as you please. Either that or be woman enough to tell your man what you need and if he cant provide you with money then maybe find someone who meets your needs if its that important for you to do your girly things you'd have to take it from him instead. Or take my motto.... I can do bad by myself so whoever I had chosen to be with when I was dating had to have certain things. Some people might think thats materialistic but to me it was standards its easy to pick a loser I wanted someone who hey could take care of themselves. Now im married if I want to take some money out my husbands wallet I have every right and vice versa if he needs some from mine he does as well..... But dam girl!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have some tact and more respect than that.
2007-01-19 10:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by jlofayetteville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely WRONG.
Not only are you stealing from someone you are supposedly "fond of", but now you are LYING and pointing your finger at an innocent person! All so you can go have fun & do "girly stuff"??? You need to take a serious look at your moral compass.
Why don't you ask YOUR parents for money if you are too lazy to go get a job?
2007-01-19 10:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Justified 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking the money is no big deal, but lying about it is WRONG! Be woman enough to admit what you did and give your reason(s) for doing it. Maybe he'll start giving you the money you need to do your thing OR you could go out and get a job and have your OWN money and you don't need to ask him for any money or steal any money from him again. It's called being an INDEPENDENT WOMAN!! Give it a try...
2007-01-19 10:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he took your money to pay his car note, would you call him a thief? You got yourself in some pretty hot water and blaming roommate is lower than low. Well you have proved two points. You can't be trusted and you're a liar.
2007-01-19 10:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by D.B. Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it again. if he wants you to have money, he'll give it to you. Obviously, if he couldn't afford his car note because you took his money, then he didn't have the money to give you to go do girly things. If he has the money, he might be willing to give it to you, but if he has bills and a limited income, then he probably just can't afford to give you an allowence. Get a part tiome job to cover some of you expenses.
2007-01-19 10:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so terrible for stealing money out of your boyfriend's wallet and then having the audacity to blame the room mate who is innocent so that you can go shopping!!
I hope your guy finds out soon, because you are not trustworthy at all.
2007-01-19 10:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You had to ask if you thought it was wrong? You're being deceptive - of course it's wrong. It's dishonest & selfish - and to top it all off you blame his roommate and then spend $ on stuff you don't really need and he can't make his car payments? W R O N G .
2007-01-19 10:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Freedspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That terrible. You are a stealing from your boyfriend. How would you feel if someone took money from your purse and you didn't have enough to pay your car payment? I hope this never happens to you, but what goes around comes around.
2007-01-19 10:38:03 · answer #11 · answered by Shay 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋