for about a year and it was great! We would go out he would send me flowers, take me out to dinner, and also we were more sexual with each other. Well now that we are bf and Gf it seems that I get less attention from him he don’t kiss me as often we don’t have much sex. It seems like we get along with each other The other day I ask him if he would put gas in my car and his response was I’m I married to you! Do you think he seeing someone else? Or is it that we need some time apart.. some please help!
2007-01-19 10:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by liz r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's afraid of being tied down. Tell him that you won't accept that behavior and if it's how he's going to be, then you do need time apart. He needs to decide if he really wants to be with you or not. Maybe he just loves the chase. Who needs that???
2007-01-19 10:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat, but I am married. I confronted him about it and told him that if things didn't straighten up towards his emotions and feelings towards me then I was packing and leaving. I was also pregnant at the time but miscarried. I just explained to him how I feel and he was man enough to respect that and admitted that he wasn't spending much time with me. I didn't suspect him of cheating. In your case, I would talk to him about it and see what he says. Follow your heart. See when I was dating everything was great and now that I am married, he knows he has me and always will and thinks that he doesn't have to show emotion towards me. But that's not right because it's part of having a relationship. Just explain to him how you feel and ask him why he is like that. If he doesn't want to reason with you or explain to you then I would suspect him of cheating or not caring anymore. You could always invest somehow to see if he is cheating. The best thing you can do is talk to him. After all communication is everything and is how a relationship works.
2007-01-19 18:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, he's just being an idiot. Most guys are like this at some point in time, but this is good. It's like a test to see if this whole relationship ya'll have going on can make it through. i don't think he's seeing anyone else, he's just being a guy. So if you get through it you'll know if ya'll were meant to be........if not it's just been a year and even if he had great sex you can DEFINATELY move on! But seriously he probably loves you and it's not anything to be frantic over.
2007-01-19 18:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by noella. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people get stuck in this rut, but it doesn't mean its over yet. I dot think he's seeing another woman. You spark the romance. Do something romantic for him, he might get the clue that romance is lacking in the relationship. you initiate sex and kissing. if these dont work, talk to him. if things dont change and your unhappy it may mean its over.
2007-01-19 18:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not seeing someone else, hes becoming too comfortable in the relationship and wants to reestablish his own individuality.
2007-01-19 18:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by Psyc Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your spelling and grammar spoiled this ridiculous question
2007-01-19 18:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋