he got me mad, i found a number in his pocket, so i beat him up. not in a girly way. i did it with my fists and a few objects around the house. he was crying and stuff....
he didn't hit back, he didn't get the chance to really...
he hasn't called me since it happened yesterday......whats going to happen to us?
2007-01-19 10:19:47 · 25 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I kinda made a joke and you might really be very sad......
2007-01-19 10:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things Are Defiantely Going To Be Weird. ONE You Found A Phone Number In His pocket! TWO He Was Crying! THREE Men Like To Feel Like The Dominant In The Relationship. He Is Not Going To Feel Very Manly And Confident If He Got Beat Up By His Girlfirend!
2007-01-19 10:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by daniielle..♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask who the number was for or anything? Don't react on a whim. It might be something innocent.
If you're beating up people, you need some help with anger management. What will happen if you lose control with animals or with kids or elderly people? You'll end up in prison if you don't get yourself under control.
What guy wants a girl that acts like an Amazon by fighting and hitting him with her fists anyway?
2007-01-19 10:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never beat someone I wanted to stay with, so i don't know.
A guy I was dating got mad and hit me once. I already had one black belt and was going for another in a different art, so needless to say things didn't go well for him.
I never spoke to him again.
It depends on how your boyfriend took it. If he feels disrespected and afraid then he may not come back. If he's guilty of something he may take it and come back, thinking that he's taken an appropriate punishment and doesn't have to feel bad about what he did. Its a bad idea to flip out like that over something that can be solved verbally. You can also get in legal trouble. Its also bad for your health, all that raised blood pressure and screaming.
2007-01-19 10:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either a wimp or he's one of those brainwashed men that are told NEVER to hit a woman. Try that with me and I'll break that pretty little nose of yours. So what you found a number in his pocket. I get female numbers all the time. It may be coworkers or clients. If you are a student it might be a girl he needs to contact about doing a project.
You need to get over yourself and get some help.
2007-01-19 10:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ben B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm right i'd say get some anger management - but first acknowledge the fact that you're a danger to him.
I mean like HELLO? i don't even wanna know what you'd do to him if you caught him in bed with another girl... sounds like you'd cap him one, right between the eyes.
If you're not running back to him after thinking about how you abused him for a week and then crying at his feet in a ladylike way then i'd say bye bye.
you've probs mashed up his ego, and thats no good for a man is it? Im not saying he should be the one beating you, but you should know better, you shoulda calmed down first.
Go to him after some contemplation, be honest about the wreck you were, explain what you were feeling about the number, and let him do the judging.
2007-01-19 10:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vxn* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just realize (i have done that before) there is something wrong with you because you let it effect you in such a profound way. the best thing for you to do is to leave because your are not really happy.(u might not think so but u will find out) you have to learn to love yourself enough to know that if he was cheating on you that you are better than that and you need to move on. i have taken the classes and all but it is all about self control. no one deserves to be hit no matter what the reason. try to learn more about yourself before u get in another relationship cause unfortunately history repeats it self most of the time. own up to your mistakes and let him know that. stay friends GOOD LUCK
2007-01-19 10:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happened yesterday so he probably needs time to get over the fact that u kicked his ***.... I think after another day or two, u two will probably talk about what happen and maybe can work things out.... But if u found a number in his pocket, are u sure u want to stay with him? Esp. if its another girl...............
2007-01-19 10:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, things will be weird and you may want to consider anger management classes. Its not normal for a woman or a man to hit another. That is anger issues. Finding #'s in his pocket and beating him up will only make him hide the #'s better next time.
2007-01-19 10:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you lost your cool
you need to talk to someone about your anger
if I were him, I would say absolutely not, I wouldnt want anything else to do with you. Why? because this could be a sign of worse things to come further down the road.
I mean this in the nicest of ways, but you need to get some help.
2007-01-19 10:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what WILL happen but what SHOULD happen involves you going to jail. Grown people do not "beat up" others. No matter how mad they get.
Seriously, being an adult means that you handle yourself in a manner that exhibits that. And besides that, you're a female.....act like a lady.
2007-01-19 10:23:09 · answer #11 · answered by Stacey K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋