i'm 16, he's 24 and it's pretty serious.. we've been dating for 5 months now and i don't know if it's the right time to have sex, or if it is right at all.
2007-01-19 10:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's the thing: He's going to enjoy the sex far more than you will. He's probably (and I should hope) been doing it for much longer than you have not to mention he's emotional more able to have sex than you are. Sex is going to mean many different things to you than it will to him. Talk to him about it and don't let him pressure you. Just be safe and use birth control.
2007-01-19 10:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, it is not alright. The only reason older guys go out with young girls is to control them and ultimately to have sex with them. No normal 24 year old would have anything in common with a 16 year old girl. When he wants to get serious he will dump you in a minute.
2007-01-19 18:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by ob_ms_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi think that this is a big mistake. You shouldn't do this, he's 8 years older. I just ended a relationship like yours. There was a very big age difference and It ending badly. I believe your should leave him and find someone your own age. You should wait to have sex till your older and if at possible till your married.
2007-01-19 18:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run friend...Run! What's the rush. Enjoy being a 16 year old. Sex and all those ideas of "love" will come soon enough for you. Hopefully when your a few years older.
2007-01-19 18:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by classielassie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so sweetie. You should back the hormones down a notch. Oh and 5 years? That would put u at 11 and he at 19? What the hell is wrong with this picture?
2007-01-19 18:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by just1more 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16! No it isn't right that you are dating an older man and he should know better!
2007-01-19 18:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never really liked the idea of that much age diffrence at your age. Sweetheart, You need to find someone who is more your age. And If your Still A virgin You need to DEFINATELY find somone new. But If You Truly Do Love him The Decision Is All Yours To make
Much Love And Luckâ¥
2007-01-19 18:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by daniielle..♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering your underage, I would say no. Now if you were 18 and older, fine. Your playing with fire.
2007-01-19 18:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you think its ok... then its ok! im totally in the same boat as you just a year older.
2007-01-19 18:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too old for you dear. guys who are usually older than girls tend to have more experience. if you really LOVE HIM, then i guess its okay to have sex. but do it if you love him.
2007-01-19 18:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by marisssssssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋