People say it's a step away from cheating but I don't find it true....If you are the cheater's type, you'd cheat no matter what no?
Flirting when absolutely harmless, is pretty fun.
2007-01-19 10:05:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing as long as it stays that way
2007-01-19 10:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandrarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are flirting while committed, it is pretty harmless, but make sure that if you flirt it is probably a good idea not to do it in the presence of the one that you are committed to. This isn't to be sneaky as some may say I'm telling you to do, this is just so if the person you are committed to has sensitive feelings you don't damage/hurt them, and cause a rift in your relationship.
2007-01-19 18:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by tieshantiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the flirting, it's just what flirting leads up to. I mean common, if you start to flirt I imagine it's cause you want to do something with that someone. And a mix of hormones and stupid attempts at reasoning often end up in cheating. Although if you can keep all under control, flirting is great.
2007-01-19 18:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ace of Names 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It gives people the wrong idea, first of all. By flirting with whoever, just because it's "fun", you're pretending to be available, leaving the door wide open for someone to pursue you. It just creates problems that are so easily avoidable. Also, blatant flirting with other people when you're attached is a tad disrespectful, in my opinion.
2007-01-19 18:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're doing it to ur special somone, then there's DEFINETELY no harm!!! it'll actually strengthten the bond. but if ur commited to one person, then all of a sudden go off to someone else and flirt, it's viewed as cheating, i think. think of it this way: if you were in a commited relationship with someone, and all of a sudden you find out that that guy was flirting with some other woman. not a veyr nice feeling at all, jealousy, hate, despair, all mixed in. it's horrible i think. and it's definetely not harmless.
2007-01-19 18:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by MiKKi ~:B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this comes down to what your boundaries are.
I do not flirt when in a relationship, because I would hate it done to me.
Flirting is harmless, as long as your PARTNER finds it so. If your partner is offended by it, then it's no longer harmless.
2007-01-19 18:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Corsetry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know what could happen by doing that.the guy your "harmlessly flirting" with could take it as serious and might be a stalker or rapist. plus your misleeding guys and cheating in a way. theres just to many things that could go wrong to what most people think are harmless.
2007-01-19 18:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is just wanting to cheat and if you don't want to you why do you need to flirt? You would just be sending out mixed signals. Plus how would you like it if you saw your man flirting with some girl??
2007-01-19 18:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is an invitation and saying you are open to taking it a step further ! I also says you aren't getting what you want or need from you current relationship !!!
2007-01-23 11:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by whatelsewhatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is in your insecurity. Why do you feel it necessary? While it may not be wrong, there are underlying issues at hand, I always feel so bad for the husband/boyfriend when their significant other flirts with me. I think they are trashy. Have fun.
2007-01-19 18:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harmless for whom? You must take into account your partners feelings when in a relationship.
2007-01-19 18:14:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋