ok so yeah i have posted a million question like this up but it seems like everythime i turn around i'm falling for a boy really bad.
this one is a hard one. hes really quiet and i just can't seem to get a chance to talk to him. i need to spark up a converstion but i don't know how! what should i do?
2007-01-19 09:42:31 · 18 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
F.Y.I he's in my 7th hour but i really don't talk to him like that. he knows all my friends but i haven't talked to him alone. we only say high to each other.
2007-01-19 09:53:58 · update #1
This happened to me. What you need to do is.. are you friends with one of his friends? Talk to them while they guy you like is around show off your intillect! DO NOT ASK HIS FRIEND FOR HIS E-MAIL OR IM. I did that and asked him out with out talking to him before hand. I can never talk to him again!
2007-01-19 09:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Freshman15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go talk to him. i'm a dude and sometimes i can be quiet. there may be a girl that i wanna talk to but can not work up the nerve. eventually i do, with mixed results, but it would be cool (and kind of sexy) if girls would initiate the conversation. i mean, seriously, it is 2007, not 1943. a girl can approach a boy just as much as a boy can a girl. just say hey, whats up, how you doin'; you know, somthing like that to "break the ice." if he likes you he will start talking to you, unless he has SERIOUS self esteem issues.
2007-01-19 17:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by kol m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he usually do when he is quiet? You must know something about him to like him so build on that. Say hi, you are awfully quiet. Im (name) and go from there. Take a chance
2007-01-19 17:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by kamni07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is interested in (or good at) and play the "I need help" card! If he likes computers then ask him about something that you don't know about your computer (don't ask him if you really do know because you don't want to play dumb)...just see what you can learn from him and FLIRT while you are doing it!
2007-01-19 17:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Littlesby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r just like me i really liked this guy but i did not have the nerve to talk to him so what i did is i Finlay started to talk to and now we are the best of friends
2007-01-19 17:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by hanna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his interests are and strike up a conversation about that. He's probably just as nervous or shy so just be friendly and ask him about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves!
2007-01-19 17:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask about the homework and be yourself! talk about a certain teacher no one likes or just talk about something random! introduce yourself and pretty soon you will be good friends! then work up the nerve to ask him out (try a group date first so that he doesn't feel uncomfortable)
2007-01-19 17:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by jessesangul987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a nice body you should show it off to him otherwise just talk to him like the other guy said
2007-01-19 17:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by BATTLEFEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really in my opinion its that boy you droolin' all around on is the one who should be gettin' the help.
If he doesn't like you then make him go poof! and say ***** be gone!
But if your not puttin100% of your effort to get yo man then i cant blame him.
Hope you get the man of your dreamz! =)
p_e_a_c_3 ~N~ l_o_v_3
2007-01-19 17:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guyss ahhh, start talking about something you both share in common, like school or something.
2007-01-19 17:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by xoabrcmbiiemoosee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋