I am in a horrible situation. My boyfriend is extremely sexy but than I met his family. WOW! His dad is ssssssssssssssssooo hot, he made me wet the moment we shook hands. What do I do? There was an obvious connection. His dad is single (his mom and dad are divorced). I caught his dad staring at my ***. He checked me out when I was in the kitchen too. I am having naughty thoughts. HELP!
2007-01-19 09:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wet! That's what I'm talking about! Bad situation. Wouldn't want to be the boyfriend. Would kill to be the dad.
2007-01-19 09:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by 4X4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're looking for. Long term relationship with dad? If all it's based on is mutual lust, there's not much chance. Are you at all serious about your bf? Pursuing any kind of a relationship with dad will kill that. If you're just in it for the physical, it wouldn't hurt, but don't expect glowing reviews from your bf in his comments to friends, which will be the population where you're more likely to find a long time partner.
Just because dad is checking you out doesn't mean he necessarily would seriously be interested. If he's divorced, he's maybe been out of contact with females for a while, and if his son's hot girlfriend is around, it's only natural that he might be taking advantage of doing a little "girl-watching". What you think is an obvious connection might just be the little head in his pants talking, but he may not be prepared to actually act on it.
Naughty thoughts are ok, but it would probably be a mistake to act on them. Just enjoy a fantasy, if you want, but keep your hands off unless you don't mind a world of pain.
2007-01-19 17:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you care about the guy. If it's nothing serious and you don't mind being a crappy person and potentially hurting his feelings, go for it with the dad, as long as you're legal he's probably game...guys will surprise you like that.
If you don't wanna be a hooker and you actually have feelings for this boy, then just don't act on your fantasies. But don't discount fantasies too quickly, they can be pretty fun too...
2007-01-19 17:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you wanna end up on Maury break it off with the boyfriend and find someone else. If you can get past the thoughts about his dad then stay with him but that might be hard to do. I say just end it...it's only gonna end up bad. Someone is gonna get hurt.
2007-01-19 17:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. But, think about the consequences. Can you live with yourself after doing that? If so, ride the old man like a cowgirl. If not, be calm and be loyal to your boyfriend. Remember what you are potentially losing if you cheat on your boyfriend.
2007-01-19 17:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your boyfriend the type of guy that would understand your situation? maby if you talk to him about what happened, you may uncover some family secrets
2007-01-19 17:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyez_197531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your nasty just find another boyfriend because you will end up doing the dad eventually and everyone is just going to sart calling you a hoe. then everyone is just going to want to do you and no one is going to take you seriously
2007-01-19 17:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by short moma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dads probably to old for u so just go w/the guy. soon ull get ovr the dad
2007-01-19 17:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try thinking about what you hooking up with his dad would do to your bf. if that's not a mood killer, then you shouldn't be dating the guy in the first place.
2007-01-19 17:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go for older guys.... they'll break your heart.... stay with your boyfriend!
if you still have naughty thoughts, break up with your boyfriend.... you'll end up ruining his relationship w/ his dad
2007-01-19 17:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by jessesangul987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋