I am a 39 year old woman with an eight and half year old boy. We are both autistic (aspergers). He suffers?

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from adhd,tourettes,tics,ocd, anxiety, panic attacks. I have aspergers, right brain hemisphere damage,adhd,ocpd,anxiety disorder,panic attacks. We are homeless, we moved into transitional housing and a twelve year old boy raped my son for five months. is there any help with getting decent housing. Everything seems somewhat disheartening. You hear about charity but when ever you apply for anything in New Hampshire everyone says sorry we have no money. I dont know what to do I am beyond overwhelmed.

Answer 1

WHOA!!! Are you REALLY serious about all of this??? Your Department of Human Services should be able to help you. Also they can recommemend free mental health and legal services to you. You need to take some legal action against the place that runs the transitional housing for not supervising this boy better. How do you have access to a computer for yahoo answers? If you need someone to talk to and be your friend send me an e-mail. I'd LOVE to help out a lot more then I can right here right now. Good Luck and may G-d Bless you and your son!!!!!!!!!! P.S. I just saw that you don't allow e-mail so you won't be able to access mine unless I give it to you (and everyone else who reads this)[e-mail](please write to me)

Answer 2

U can apply for sect. 8 but there is a usually a LONG list for this. If u are homeless it helps in some places.. There are places to live that are based on income (not thru Sect.8). I moved to Kansas City last year and Nobody would help me either.. I was paying 80% of my income for rent and I was told I made too much to qualify (I made less than $600 a month).. A lot of bigger cities won't help unless u are a foreigner or illegal...for me..I was white (city 90% black) and was discriminate against.. Nobody cared that I was disabled.. they assumes since I was a white female..I could work.. There is NO way they are out of funds.. it's being saved for someone else.. Contact sect. 8 and apply.. Know though that most sect. 8 places to live are in "bad" places. The real decent places don't deal with sect. 8..Have u applied for SS/SSI for u and ur son.. That would be my next suggestion. (my son was raped for over a year by family so I know what u are going thru).. I hope u pressed charges on this boy..CPS will do it for u..or should..call them..call the police..they will call CPS..However, know that CPS will consider u homeless and may take ur child (u can't win).. Have u checked with the churches.. In smaller cities, they are more willing to help.. Here is a website that may be able to help u if u have an immediate need (med bills, etc) https://www.modestneeds.org.. GL

Answer 3

Contact your local Department of Health and Human Services. They should be able to hook you up with some decent benefits. If not, contact your local Office for Diability Resources and let them know what's been going on. At any rate, unless you have a job that pays you massive amounts of money there should be a benefit program that will help you out.

Answer 4

i say email the person above; they know the field and the system. i bet they know of some help for housing for the disabled and abused. i know about some womens groups, but the person above would know more about child advocate groups with health and human services better... also probably know where to find support for you guys.



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Answer 5

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