If I break up with my girlfriend, do it with someone else, then get back togerther with my girlfriend, is it still considered cheating? I mena I really want to make it with this hottie, but I don't want to cheat on my girl friend, I know the hottie isn't for long term.. so I think I should break up with my girlfriend, do the hottie, and then get back with my girlfriend later.... What do you think?
2007-01-19 08:37:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
technically I would be in the clear, right?
2007-01-19 08:40:34 · update #1
You only live once. Its not cheating, but your girlfriend might not take you back. You'll have to decide if you can live with the consequences. Besides, it sounds like you're not serious about your girlfriend anyways, so you should break up regardless. Go out and enjoy being with lots of girls until you find one that you want to be with forever (or until you turn 45 and sleep with your secretary and then leave your wife for her).
2007-01-19 08:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would be in the clear - but you're still an a'hole for even thinking of doing that. I hope the hottie has herpes and your poor gf who deserves better than you doesn't take you back
2007-01-19 08:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of what your saying, you want to break up with your gf to bang a hot chick then after wnat to get back together with your gf as if nothing happened. It's not cheating but it's cold blooded. If you want to bang that hot chick just do it and then break up it's easier and less drama.
2007-01-19 08:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she should cut off your nuts and feed them to the dogs. Seriously though if you break up with her just to screw another girl then I doubt if your gf found out she'd want you back anyway. So if you dump her keep walking
2007-01-19 08:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always amazing to me when I see someone who lacks empathy. I just can't understand it.
To me it's kind of weird that this guy hasn't asked himself "What would it feel like if my girlfriend did this to me?" when considering his "options". That might clear things up for him a bit.
2007-01-19 08:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you got to ask It isn't right. But yeah if its ok for you can your girlfriend do that too. Because I would sure would hope she does.
2007-01-19 08:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That not very nice!!! I would be heart broken if my bf do this to me. If you love your gf, you should treat her the way you like to be treated.
2007-01-19 08:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by 1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Technically" it's not cheating. Besides, you're so cute, she'll have to forgive you.
2007-01-19 08:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically no you wouldnt you are being deceitful --- and you are exactly right you are a shallow pig
2007-01-19 08:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the hottie ... and just don't tell your girl
2007-01-19 08:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by TR 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋