Well, My ex-girlfriend and i been talking, has been getting close even though she has a boyfriend. Their going through relationship issues and what not so i gave her a diamond necklace and walk her home and etc . So her and her boyfriend breaks up over the necklace... but 2 weeks later she finds out i am talking to another girl. She knows i been waiting on her for a long time, but i had to keep my options open cause she had a boyfriend.. 3 days ago she sends me a text asking who is the girl. I tell her a "Someone". She next ask me "is she your girlfriend or something". I tell her "no", she is a friend with benfits". Then she replies saying "oh, well i'm glad you are happy. She won't text me back or pick up the phone when i call her anymore. Was it good she found out that i am talking to other girls to show her that i am not going to be waiting on her forever?
2007-01-19 08:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course. Find all the girls you want. Explore your world of women. You're not getting married any time soon and don't plan on settling down either so have a great time with all the women. Keep the charge going.
MJ
2007-01-19 08:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if her and her boyfriend broke up because of the necklace you gave her then you should have been willing to give up your friend with benefits. She probably still likes you and you telling her you had a "friend with benefits" probably hurt her and she doesn't want to talk to you. I don't think she was really glad when she said she was but I doubt she'd tell you how she felt about you after you mentioned your other friend. So I guess you just have to find a way to get her to talk to you so you can work things out. If you're not going to wait on her forever, then why didn't you tell her that? I think you should tell her that because her knowing that you talk to other girls is going to make her jealous and she'll think that you don't like/care about her if you're hanging with other girls.
2007-01-19 08:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got what you deserved for trying to break up her relationship. That was not a gentlemanly thing to do, and you should be ashamed of yourself - being a supportive friend is one thing, but bribing her with gifts and flirting with her was WRONG.
Yes, you had the right to date other women, but after her breakup with the other guy you misled her into thinking that the two of you were would be in a (monogamous) relationship again. And you were wrong to try and play some "game" in order to prove something to her. You should have communicated HONESTLY and OPENLY with her.
Neither of you should be dating if you're going to be so immature and reckless with other people's emotions.
2007-01-19 08:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to show her that you're not waiting forever, you should'nt have gotten her a diamond necklace because a diamond for a girl means i love you exclusively. Now she thinks it was all for nothing because of ur new friend with benefits.
2007-01-19 08:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that was a dumb move. If you've got multiple girls going at once, you don't ever let them know about eachother. Women are super jealous.
2007-01-19 08:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋