My girlfriend is going away this weekend and i told her bye and that i loved her. I told her to have a good time and asked her when can i see her? She told me "Let's not worry about that right now." "Lets just worry about having fun this weekend." What does all this mean?? Does it mean she doesn't really care when she can see me? I'm so confused. She going to her best friends house this girl Tina while me I'm flying to Boston to see my family. So...what does all this mean?? please explain someone!
-what does this mean?-
2007-01-19 08:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you may be smothering her. I would back off this weekend and wait for her to call you.
2007-01-19 08:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Michele 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means, that you should both have fun this weekend, sounds like you guys need some space from each other. Relax, have a good time with your family. If it is meant to be, it will still be there after the weekend, if not, it is much better to find out now.
2007-01-19 08:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. It means she is concentrating on the details of this weekend and does not want to schedule anything. Do not freak out and worry that she doesn't love you anymore. If she doesn't, you'll find out for sure soon enough when you get back. If you act too needy, she'll feel weird. Enjoy the time with your folks and let her call you when you return from Boston.
2007-01-19 08:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by World Traveler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, relax and calm down you are too uptight and girls don't like that. You need to enjoy this weekend first. Just enjoy the weekend with your family instead of worrying about it and thinking about her all weekend, enjoy this weekend with your family. Second, don't be so needy, wait until she wants to come see you.
2007-01-19 08:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything. You two are going to two different place to enjoy other friends. So just go and have a good time. When both of you return you'll miss each other by kissing and hugging one another. So have no fear. Just have fun.
MJ
2007-01-19 08:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh! It sounds like she isn't as in to the relationship as you and that she is already planning on having a good time while you are apart. Be careful! If you believe in God you really need to pray to Him to guard your heart from this girl before she hurts you. Good luck, Sweetie.
2007-01-19 08:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...Chill Out man. Second don't worry about it cause you sound really young and life will throw you another bone I promise so if it turns out that this relationship you're in doens't work out...Don't worry you have many many years to find another.
2007-01-19 08:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to musch she is just saying have fun till you see her again. If not don't worry about get Laid in Boston
2007-01-19 08:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you're being obsessive, my friend.
you can waste your time being suspicious and jealous, or you can take her advice; just have fun.
if you have the necessary amount of trust that is required for a healthy relationship, it shouldn't be a problem.
life is all about 'now'. save the worries for later.
cheers.
2007-01-19 08:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by evoleye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to justify something.
No one needs to be treated like crap, go out and have a good time. If she calls you just blow her off.
No rings no strings :)
2007-01-20 04:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Z 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋