I know i am talking to a bunch of strangers but i need help my 15 year old cousin died yesturday and she was really close to me we did everything togrther everyday and i've been crying since she died i can't stop i loved her so much it's like having a sister i ever had one.What should i do about it i can't stop crying
2007-01-19 08:32:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
i loved her too much
2007-01-19 08:41:04 · update #1
i loved her too much
2007-01-19 08:42:27 · update #2
i loved her too much
2007-01-19 08:45:35 · update #3
I'm sorry for the hard time you are going through. It's good to cry. However, if it persists for too long, you should contemplate antidepressants to get over it. See a doctor for that.
2007-01-25 18:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Fairy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you lost someone you loved deeply. Why are you worried about crying? You just lost your dear, close friend. Of course you should cry. Crying is nature's way of allowing you to expel sad feelings. How about trying to express your feeling for your cousin in a journal? Perhaps you'll write about all the nice times you shared together and the things you loved most about her. Perhaps you could write a nice poem about her. How about making up a song just for her? Or drawing a lovely picture of her?
One thing to keep in mind is that you aren't the only person who misses her. I'm sure her parents are totally devasted by the loss of their daughter. I hope you'll spend time talking to them about her.
There's one very important lesson we learn when someone we love dies, and that is that we never know when someone is going to die. So treat each day you have with friends and family as though it is the last time you'll ever see them.
2007-01-26 15:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have lost someone close to me. I felt like I was dieing and would never love another person again. I hated everything. In time it will pass and it is hard cause just the smallest thing will make you think of that person. The best advice I can give is focus on the things she loved in life, things she like to do. When you feel yourself getting sad start thinking of things she liked or what she would say to you or something funny she did. I usually helps. Sorry to hear your loss
2007-01-26 16:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about the amount you cry/// You are dealing with it however you need to deal with it. You will stop when you are ready. It was obviously a very hard and large loss to you. You will forever remember her and all the things you did together. You will try to replay every minute you spent with her in your mind as to kind of imprint it so you will never forget. You will never forget but it will get easier. Try doing something that you two used to do that made both of you happy and smile. Try doing something you know she would want you to do. Try talking to hers and your parents.... Good luck and I am soooo sorry sweety...
2007-01-19 08:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Karlee bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, peanut, just cry.
It's only been one day, you aren't supposed to be anywhere close to emotionally able to handle this yet. Just lie down on your bed with a pillow and bawl your little eyes out. Eventually the tears will stop and you will feel better. Let your family and friends love and support you, and you should love and support them right back.
2007-01-19 08:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grieving, which is perfectly normal. You lost someone who is a large piece of your life. I shouldn't say 'lost' because that isn't true. She has gone to Heaven, and she has the freedom to come and visit whenever she wants. You may feel certain signs that she is there. (the scent of her cologne, you might see that something has been moved, and she will also come to you in your dreams.) Talk to her, she is always there. Love transcends the grave. Grieve, my dear. If it gets too strong, call Hospice Volunteers who can help you. I'm so sorry!
2007-01-19 08:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The loss of someone that close to is so very hard. The crying you are doing is normal but if you can't deal with it go to a physchiatrist or a greif counselor. I'm sorry for your loss.
2007-01-19 08:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep crying. It's ok to be extremely sad when you lose someone that close to you. So keep crying until you feel better. Even if it takes a long while.
I'm sorry for your loss. No words will make the pain go away.
2007-01-19 08:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by kildarner 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cry it out sweetie. don't hold the hurt in. When your done think about all the wonderful things you shared. remember, the fact this hurts proves that you really loved. There is no easy way. People who seem to be composed have shut themselves off from their own heart and emotions. You don't have too.
2007-01-19 08:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to stop crying - you have every right to grieve for your cousin. Everybody grieves in their own way, and at their own pace. I think it's actually good that you're able to cry about it; that's certainly better than keeping it inside and letting it make you sick.
My deepest sympathies on your loss.
2007-01-19 08:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋