I really like this one guy, and we get along great. we have been friends for a while and we both like the same things. the only problem is that he has a girlfreind. If they break up, is it okay for me to make the move?
2007-01-19 08:14:37 · 21 answers · asked by wasnt_invited 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure why not.. as long as your not friends with the girlfriend then go ahead but if you are then wait a couple of days atleast.
2007-01-19 08:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by ashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait around for him to break up with her. Would you want someone doing that to you and him if you got together? Besides that though, if they should ever break up and you are willing to lose your friendship (that's the risk), sure go ahead and make your move.
2007-01-19 16:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let them break up on there own terms so he doesn't resent you later but yes, it's okay to make the move.
2007-01-19 16:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Treyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see why not, but something you might want to take into consideration is if you want to be his rebound girl, or if you want to be the one after that. You might want to let him do his own thing for a few weeks, let him have his rebound and then make your move.
2007-01-19 16:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u think it's rihgt then go for. But if I were u i'd wait a few weeks after they break up. If u don't and he has feelings for u when u guys kiss he'd prob. think of kissing his gf so wait.
2007-01-19 16:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by alibrown08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as his girlfriend isnt' a friend of yours, I can't see why not. But you'd more than likely want to wait for him to get over his breakup before pursuing anything with him. This can lead to him using you as a rebound hookup ... and us girls hate that crap!! Good Luck girl ... go get your man ... but give him time to heal first kay?
2007-01-19 16:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is, i am with a man which i have loved forever i was married he was engaged to a girl and i thought i would never b with him but i have been with him for 5 years now and we are as happy as can be, so just because he has got a partner doesn't mean he Will never be yoursxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-01-19 16:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by pinkprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If They are broken up...all is fair. Just don't go forcing them to break up though.
2007-01-19 16:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If she is still emotionally tied to him, she may start something with you but it is up to you to decide if this guy is worth the risk.
2007-01-19 16:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Buh only if they break up... Dont try and break them up or anything cuz thats wrong...
2007-01-19 16:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋