i mean, it feels good...thats it? wouldn't u want to love somebody when you're older, more mature, more REALLY in love with them? people think i'm crazy, being a virgin and all, but really, what is it that you like about it? tell me everything, i just need to know to know what to look out for when my time comes.
Thanks
2007-01-19 08:14:15 · 19 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women are smarter - we wait. know why? it's better when you're older physically and mentally. you are right on keeping your virginity. you aren't missing anything with young guys anyway - most of em aren't worth it.
2007-01-19 08:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, OK from a girl's stand point, I can tell you, I like both. I do not agree with sex without a committment and you should at least be engaged. Over a hundred years ago, the engagements didn't drag on for years like they do now. They just up and got hitched and they were man and wife. When you're in love and the sparks are flyin' it's really, really hard to say no. Everything feels so good, from the first stare, getting locked in his gaze and feeling like you're going to melt right then and there, to the point where you have sex- and I won't spoil it for ya since you're a virgin. I'm just speaking as one who isn't and also isn't married.
I, however do not ever have sex without love. I, personally, have not had sex in alomost a year, am not dating and am taking time off for myself.
2007-01-20 02:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lthere is no way that you could possibly know how great it can feel being a virgin. and there is nothing wrong with your keeping your virginity. infact that is awesome and you should keep it as long as you can for that special man that will come into your life.
however,
asking such questions about why men like sex so much, you must also understand that the majority of women also enjoy sex.
until you have been intimately involved with a man, whom you really care for and he cares for you as much, you then, would know how awesome a feeling it is when the two become as one together in the most beautiful way any two can share each other.
one day you willunderstand, however men mature and are more likely to be more active sexually between the ages of 19 - 30 woman mature in that way at a later stage in life usually. 30 thru the 40's. Iused to hate sex, after I turned 40 I found that I enjoyed it much more, and still do..
your still young. dont worry about why. worry about who and when? and don't ever sell yourself cheep. believe in yourself and \you will find someone who also believes in you. then you will find your answer.. take care,
2007-01-19 16:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know... from what i know, most guys like to boast. most guys are perverts & will go out & tell everyone that they had sex with a girl, right after they do it. that's why i want to wait until i am married. im totally with you on the idea of staying a virgin until like... honey moon ;] so yeah... i guess not all guys are like this;; but i would want to wait until imk maried & im positive that that guy is the right guy for me.
2007-01-19 19:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just feels good sharing your love and body with a person you love. Thats whats really soo good about ti (atleast to me) but for aguy they just wanna get a nut so it could be with a gir they care about or not. I love it cuz its special 2 me
2007-01-19 16:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay a virgin, it will mean more later,, but you wont understand the answers to your question, tell later, but most of the other won't understand your point ever, and I think your right
2007-01-19 16:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when your times comes..you will understand...for me, i love sex, just as much as guys... i love the physical aspect of it and the mental heat that arises from it.
When you are ready....you will also understand how some women like the act of sex just as much as guys do....
2007-01-19 16:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it till you are older....trust me it is worth the wait.......all the young boyz out there are just out to get laid....they dont care by who or what....they just want to brag to their friends how many they have had....wait till you find a real man.....he is worth the wait and you will thank yourself later....believe me!!
2007-01-19 16:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok little girl time for your night time story its bedy time
"go to sleep little girl go to sleep little girl"
yeah its called nature its like asking why do some many humans like breathing air
2007-01-19 16:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the male instinct to dominate and in this case, he likes to think hes dominating a girl when having sex, sure you can think of it whatever way you want, but thats wat i think, its kinda like that alpha male hting with virgins, they wanna show the girl what its like, even if "it" sucks
2007-01-19 16:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋