How do guys REALLY feel about VIRGINS???????

Question

here's the scenario........there's this guy that i met in college, even though we don't go to the same school anymore & live one state apart, we still talk on occassion & the 'feelings' that we developed are still there.
However i had been contemplating whether or not he was "real" or not...........

Recently when we spoke he asked me if i was still a virgin & if I was saving it for him.... when i told him i was still a V he said that he respected the fact.......bascially my question is.......from a guy's perspective....what's up w/ this dude??????.should i trust him

Answer 1

Being a guy, I highly respect a virgin and I admire their convictions.

You live a state apart, even if you had an on going relationship, it's not a good thing to be so far apart. Too many things can happen.

what I think is up with this guy is, I think he was going for a night with you but when you laid the V on him, he was shocked and backed off. Yea he may have been thinking he was going to get lucky but his own convictions stopped him in his tracts.

You might be able to trust him, only you would know but like most guys, he's going to be out of one thing and I don't think you should be so willing to give it up for him. Stick with someone close by.

Answer 2

Regardless to his sincerity, most guys respect and admire a women who has maintained her virginity. Especially going all the way through high school these days. Its a or should be flattering thing for a women to select you to be her first sexually experience.

There is no way to tell if he is gonna get it today and be gone tomorrow, but based on how old you guy are, I believe he will be sticking around for a while and is on the up and up.

Answer 3

no if he asked you that that means he just want to have sex with you be careful.......................good luck