Girls, if you could change three things about your boyfriend, what would those be?

Question

Hey, I'm a guy, and I'm just curious. Let's say you found this magical "boyfriend" notebook, and this miraculous notebook could change your boyfriends' behavior/personality in three ways that you'd like him to be. So when you wrote down three things that you wanted your boyfriend to change, all those three would happen right away. But these three things should be only about his personality/behavior. If you wrote "I want him to be richer." "I want him to be more handsome," they're not going to happen. So....What would you write? I need some reasons along the answers, why you want those. Thanks! Girls only please and I always give five stars to the best answer.

Ok, just don't post your answer if you want him as the way he is now.

Answer 1

1) I would want him to think of me more. If I see something on TV that I think he would like to watch, I TiVo it. If I know he needs a particular shirt washed for the next day, then I wash it. It would be nice if he did the same sort of things to let me know he cares or at least acknowledged when I do nice things for him.

2) I would want him not to act differently in front of his friends when we are all together. I understand the whole 'image' thing, but giving me a kiss or some attention when you are with your friends does not make you 'WHIPPED'.

3) Don't be afraid to say how you feel. If you are angry then be angry, and if you are totally in love then be totally in love. Don't be afraid to express yourself no matter what you are feeling. I would rather fight and make-up, then let everything build up and then things only get worse.

Answer 2

1. I would make him less of a sore loser......ant time we play a game and he does not win we have to play again until he wins or else he will be mad at himself the whole night b/c he could not win a stupid game like Battle of the Sexes.

2. I would like him to be a better communicator, he hate talking on the phone....writing in cards or talking things out with me, He hardly ever gets what I am saying.

3. I would change the fact that he thinks it is ok to walk in the bathroom when I am going # 2......man give a girl some space

Other than that I LOVE my boyfriend with all of my 21 year old heart!!

Answer 3

I'm not dating anyone atm but with my past boyfriends, it was small things that I would've changed, like having them call me just to talk (which so many of them never did) or being affectionate rather than like..pressuring. I think that if you're going out with someone you should accept them for who they are, but those are some small things that girls appreciate in a guy.
I once broke up with a guy because he acted different and "aloofer" to me when he friends are around, so I would have changed that about him...made him more honest.
But when you fall in love these things don't matter and when you find the right girl she'll accept you for you.

Answer 4

If you ask a girl a question like this leave the boyfriend out of it cause most girls will say that they will change nothing about him, they love him. If you want to know basically what girls like in a guy then here is what I would like;
1. To validate my feelings as important.
2. To try and keep the romance.
3. To be concerned for my health and wellbeing..

Answer 5

1) Make him more of a kid person. I have a son from a previous relationship and my current boyfriend is pretty much clueless when it comes to kids.

2) More energy. He works half butt during the day and still complains about being tired after work.

3) More romantic. He thinks flowers are for sissies :(

Answer 6

1. Be more open and stop keeping little obvious secrets. - because I like to be able to talk to my man about everything, and plus he's a TERRIBLE liar, kinda like a 6 year old
2. Don't latch on to every thought or negative feeling that comes to mind. Use your mind and spirit to filter some of that stuff out and away. - because it's D R A I N I N G, Dude!
3. Stop thinking I can't dance, because I LOVE to dance and I will never stop dancing and it breaks my heart that you say I can't dance and ... just stop. - Cause it broke my little heart

Answer 7

1. id be able to see him when ever i wanted b/c this is a long distance relationship but we tlk every day and write letters to each other

2. id want him to live closer to me like next door and/orin the same neighborhood.

3.and to not have mood swings so he wont wind up taking it out on some one in his family or on me

tese are three things i wud change if i could

Answer 8

there are a lot of things i want to change about my bf but if i'm gonna change those through that magical notebook, then he's not gonna be the same guy i fall in love with... nobody is perfect, if you really love someone, you'll love him with all his imperfections...

Answer 9

I wouldnt change anything about him, i feel in love with him just the way he is and i think that if you want to change stuff about him then maybe you should not be together.......wanting to change someone means that you are not compatable and that you are to absorbed in the outward things

Answer 10

well..
1- For him to be 100 percent with me
why- because he hides what he thinks will hurt me but how can you change things if you don't know.. or how can you deal with things if he doesn't tell you. i know he does it to be nice but I want 100 percent truth

2-he's quick to anger
he acts before he ask.. most of the time it is nothing but a misunderstanding but he get's mad then says sorry

3-understanding-
I have trust issues because of past abuse... i wish he could understand how things in your past can affect the person you are today.. he tries but he just doesn't understand and how could he if he hasn't been there..lol