Question to girls.Have you ever turned down a guy because he had a small penis?

Question

I have, and in retrospect I feel bad, but he was really small, like 5 inches.

Answer 1

You are basing a man's whole manhood on how many inches he has instead of what he is worth as a man. In other words, you are putting more emphasis on his physical attributes than on his personality. SAD!!! It would be like men dumping you because you were too loose or because you had small boobs.

I'm going to use the answer that I posed before to answer your question. Some will relate to you and some won't, either way, I think you can learn something from it.

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You are one funny girl!!! Your problem is that you have everything wrong. May be you’ve been watching too many porn movies or listening too much to other people. You need to use common sense and separate what society thinks is normal or real and what \really is real. Quite often there’s a big difference.

Do yourself a favor and think really hard about what I’m about to say…YOU DO NOT A PENIS TO SATISFY WOMEN!!! If a penis is so indispensable when it comes to pleasing women, how is it that lesbians who don‘t even have penises, can satisfy other women? I've talked to a lot of girls who swear that an skilled lesbian can satisfy them in ways that most guys, even with big penises can only dream of. Oh and please, put aside the misconception that lesbians always use dildos and vibrators. Which is not true at all. I know some lesbians and bi females that have never owned nor used one. That's something that women do in porn movies because those movies are targeting men. I’m not saying that some don’t use them, but ask any lesbian that use them and they’ll tell you that they can live without them.

I think that everyone puts too much importance on size, adding to the pressure that men already have to perform in bed and to be perceived as manly men. Society likes to make fun of guys with small penises. In addition, men don’t want to be perceived as less manly than others and less capable of pleasing women. In a similar way that women don‘t want to be perceived as been less pleasurable. But in the case of women, it’s the opposite than men‘s. Small vaginas are better than large ones. The smaller and tighter a girls is, the better and more pleasurable she is! At least that’s the popular belief among men. May be you are the one with the problem, have you stopped to think about that?

Just like men don’t like to amid that we have a small one, women don’t like to amid that they have a large and loose one. Have you ever heard a girl bragging about being big and loose? Which I find ironic, because women keep telling us that we shouldn’t worry so much about our size, and yet, women are very sensitive about how pleasurable they feel to men. Tell a girl that she feels really loose and watch her reaction. Trust me, is not one of joy! The reason they don’t understand us is because they are not made as much fun of and society has not put so much pressure on them, as it as on us men, to perform in bed. For the most part, all a girl needs to do is to lay there and let the guy do all the work. If a girl feels loose, then she blames it on his "small" penis. I have a friend that has a 7 ½” penis (according to him and one of his exgirlfriends) and one day he told me that his girlfriend felt loose. When they broke up, she told people that he had a small penis. I guess 7 1/2" wasn't enough for her. It’s always the fault of the guy, isn't it? Go figure!

Stop worrying so much about his size and worry about educating yourself and your boyfriend, in what it takes to really please a woman. Read books, magazines, ask your doctor, seek the help of a sex therapist, explore each other’s bodies, etc.

I myself have a small penis (4 ½”). For the past few months I’ve spent a lot of time listening to women. After talking to a lot of them, including lesbians and bisexuals (I live close to West Hollywood, which in case you don‘t know, it‘s a gay community), I now have a better understanding of what women really want in bed.

I’m going to use an analogy to illustrate how sex between men and women should be. We have to compare sex to a nice diner. Your penis, regardless of size, is NOT the main dish on the table. Kissing, hugging, caressing…in other words, lot’s of affection is the appetizer. A full body massage with soft kisses all over her body is a great appetizer. Then comes the main dish, which is a combination of masturbation and oral sex. Once she’s had enough (once she‘s pleased), then your penis becomes the dessert. Then comes the toppings (whip cream, nuts, etc.) on the desert. The toppings are the kisses, the holding and caressing that comes after sex while laying in bed.

Unfortunately, most guys, specially “big” guys think that a couple of minutes of kissing, masturbation and/or oral sex is the appetizer, and their penis is the main dish and the dissert all rapped into one.

Take some responsibility for your own pleasure and spend some time to teach your boyfriend how you like your food cooked and served. The only way to achieve that is through communication.

Answer 2

If you find yourself having a one night stand with someone it is in simple terms about sexual gratification. If your penis wasn't going to do it for the lady then I think it is sensible for her to turn you down. Should you knew she had a vagina like a clowns pocket would you might have afflicted? No, i'd on no account flip a man down since of his size. For my part, the dimensions of a mans penis is not an difficulty. (knowing, fancying and liking the man or woman is) don't get hung up about your measurement, there may be nothing extra off placing than a man who lacks confidence. Get yourself again on the bicycle, excellent good fortune Sparky x

Answer 3

once you're having a one nighttime stand with somebody that's purely approximately sexual gratification. if your penis wasn't going to do it for the lady then i think that's clever for her to coach you down. in case you knew she had a vagina like a clowns pocket might you have stricken? No, i might on no account turn a guy down because of the fact of his length. in my view, the dimensions of a mans penis isn't a controversy. (understanding, fancying and liking the guy is) don't get hung up approximately your length, there is not something extra off putting than a guy who lacks self assurance. Get your self lower back on the bicycle, sturdy success Sparky x

Answer 4

6" is average, so 5" isn't really that small.

Now if he had like 3", that's really small.

Answer 5

Yep. Well, plus he drove a Buick. It just wouldn't have worked with us.

Answer 6

Yes.

Answer 7

NO. Its about making me feel good and there are many ways to do that.

Answer 8

WoW! A good reason to leave someone!! lmao... What a disgrace.

Answer 9

why not work him into getting you off instead of walking away :) :) :)