my man expects me to cater to him. i work full time, have 3 kids, and he wants dinner every evening at 11pm, when i cook for my kids at 6pm. for me to clean the house every evening, laundry, and give him a blow and massage him. also he wants me to stop hanging out with my friends. what iam i going to do. i have a 3 bedroom house, it is so stressful. is this normal..he won't help me at all. does it matter because he is pakistani.
2007-01-19 07:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't really be judgeful because I dont know how people from pakistan are but I've heard from friend that men from pakistan tend to be controlling and if you expect him to help you out.. he won't because they see it as a woman's job. I don't think I would ever be able to live like that. Best of luck to you!!!
And make sure that you make things beneficial for you and not only for him... think about yourself because you matter too!!!
2007-01-19 07:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want to sound mean, but I am speaking from experience, the simply answer is no. You are not of their culture, nor of any other middle eastern culture; therefore, you are not worthy. He may love you and think the world of you, and if that is true, then why would he want you to become a muslim? Which by the way, means a ton of changes in your life as well. If you are muslim, you will dress accordingly - meaning no shorts, no tank tops, no high heels, no toe-less shoes what so ever, etc. The chances of you two surviving together is very low, but I will wish you luck in your future.
2016-05-23 22:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kymberly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pakistani men, white women relationships last a life time...looking at the questions(in which) you've been bashing Pakistani men, I'm sure the real story is the exact opposite.
Wts the matter...did a more deserving woman stole him from you.
P.S You are not worth a Pakistani man anyway.
2007-01-20 04:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO it does not matter. He took the marriage vows with you. You are NOT is slave your his wife. If he wants a maid let him hire one. If you cook at six, why can't he come home and warm his plate up? Off him this, let YOU go to work, and he stay home and found out just how hard you job is. 99 percent of Men can not do this and do it right.
2007-01-19 07:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go f u c k himself. Tell him that if he wants dinner at 11, jack in the box is around the corner. tell him that if he wants you as a servant then you will quit your job and he can start paying you for all the s h i t that you do for him.
2007-01-19 07:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you do this, don't you know NEVER MARRY PAKISTANIES IF YOU ARE FROM ANOTHER RACE please dont find this offending if you do sorry, but pakistanies always show their love first, but when you marry them they put loads of work on you, they try do get you away from everything you like,
2007-01-19 07:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Pistonsfan101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah that matters, tell him in the united states women have rights, tell him to cook is own godamn food, dont take his ****
2007-01-19 07:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE WE MARRIED THE SAME GUY!! i just say NO NO NO NO and NO!! he don't like it but what is he going to do i will kill him on child support if he leaves!!
2007-01-19 07:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you married omar so deal with it
2007-01-19 07:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LMAO sucks to be you
2007-01-19 07:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋