I have 2 kids with this guy we have been broke up for almost 1 yr. we still messed around until Nov. Now just the other day he tells me to stop telling people are kids are his, because he doesnt think they are. He is living with someone else and they are supposedly getting married. He asked her to marry him on X-Mas. So he is just basically saying he wants a blood test because my kids are to light skinned and they dont look like him or his other kids. Now mind everyone they are 2 years old and my son just turned 1 years old. The girlfriend even ride past my house and just blows the horn or solws down just to look, all I do is act like I dont see her. I just dont feed into it anymore. But this past Friday someone flatten 2 of my tires on my car.
2007-01-19 07:13:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the blood test and put this baby to rest. If they are his kids, request child support. If they are not his kids, stop telling people they are his kids.
2007-01-19 07:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Scottee25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I'd just get the DNA test and get it over with (personally I'd require one (and I'm a male BTW) and the courts can order that request.. from either side)
A blood test will not absolutly tell you who the father is.. but it can rule out people that dont match the type. In DNA there isnt really any question worth mentioning...
2007-01-19 15:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the best thing to do when you are involved with people like that is avoid them, ignore them and have NO contact with them at all. They will drag you down if they can. As for someone messing with your car , call the police and haunt them every day if you have to( you know how LAZY the police are) do not take this litely just for your own safety. Good luck.
2007-01-19 15:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him for child support!!! Since he claims not to know if they're his ..the judge will ask him if he wants a paternity test...if he says yes they will order him to pay $600 for each one!!! before, they used to pay for it...but too many guys were denuing their kids and turns out they were the parents so now they make them pay for it if they want proof that that's their kids...if it turns out that's not his kids then they will make you reimburse him...
but ignore that stupid fiance of his...she is dumb not to see how he treats the mother of his two kids...does she think she is immune to that same treatment??? let some new meat show up and he'll be trading her in too!!! Don't pay her no mind ...just take care of your kids...and if you don't have to be in his face, stay away from him too. don't mess him anymore..it gives him power over the situation..thinking he can do what he likes with you the next girl and who knows who else!!! you're worth more than that!!!
2007-01-19 15:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mary S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing..........
Are the kids his???? If they are...then go for the blood test, and make him to support his sons.
if not..... go on with your life and forget that situation.
By the way.....if something like tires happens again...........go to the police.
2007-01-19 15:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by حلاَمبرا hallambra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah!! tell the authorities. get the blood test. because if they are his children then he will be required to help you take care of them. so....
2007-01-19 15:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know all i would do is pray gurl!!!!!!! god bless u and everything that comes!!!
2007-01-19 15:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋