Should I rip her a new one? I called CPS about a month ago on her ex fiance's mother. Their house is trashed. They cleaned it up and then the children were allowed back supposedly. Today the CPS had a suprise visit and told my sister to pick up her children ( two of them ) and they were never allowed back. They also had to rush my 18 month old nephew to the emergency room because he had a temperature of 103 and it was down for 104. Should I give her a piece of my mind for not listening to me when I told her that her children were not safe there? She is an IDIOT! What should I do or say? I know to be there for my niece who is 4 and my nephew.
2007-01-19 06:59:41 · 4 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
My sister allowed the children to go back there when they were not suppose to ordered by CPS
2007-01-19 08:50:36 · update #1
Dont rip her a new one....CPS has already done that....encourage her not to do this again...be there for her when she needs a babysitter - why else is she dropping the kids off there? Encourage her to cut off contact with her ex-fiancee as well.
2007-01-19 08:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hindsight's 20-20. Why punish her for something she cannot change now? I know it's easy to judge, but you are family and you should support your sister. Sounds to me like you'd rather "rip her a new one" than try to help her to make better decisions in the future, which makes me think you've got a problem with her far beyond this incident.
2007-01-19 16:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Emily O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't if the father still had rights she can't keep the children from him. Also maybe she just wanted her children to have a relationship with the father, and not think the situation was that bad.
2007-01-19 15:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by neicee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you think she could do since CPS let them go back? She really had no choice be thankful that now she does!!
2007-01-19 15:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋