i don`t if any1 can help work out why my mam left me and my sisters?

Question

11th of dec

Answer 1

I imagine people will be glad to try to help, but you have not explained enough ...

Answer 2

Ohhh...big hug first off! We as adults go through confusing times in our journey through life, not always as different from what teenagers go through growing up. When you get older and you reflect back over your life...you come up with something like this; as a teenager I couldn't wait to grow up, you know be 18 and on my own, have a car, an apartment a place where you could rule, if you know what I mean. Then you find out in such a hurry what all that is going to cost you, time money, and more money...then ya wanna move back home, but you can't always do that. Then before you know what hit you, you are middle-aged on the outside and feeling like a lost confused teenager on the inside...too embarrased to tell another living soul what's going on inside your head and you just have to take a timeout, you pray no one gets hurt, no one wants to hurt anyone else really, its a survival reaction really, the stress can be so enormous some people think they are going to die if they don't retreat and regroup. Please trust your mom, and coming from a mother of five children and six grandchildren, not heaven, nor earth and no amount of space, not even death could stop me from loving my children and my grandchildren, it is a special gift that God gave every woman alive, that's why we have the children. I have know idea, what your specific are, but I have asked the universe to bless you and your family in a very special way, just do the same for your mom, never give up on her, sometimes we just have to love unconditionally and trust our higher power. Also, remember that someday you might be the one being judged, so don't rush too fast about judging mom, try to be patient, loving and understanding. Someday, when she is willing to share with you you'll be happy you did keep an open heart. Be strong...Sincerely, OneDreamCaster

Answer 3

I can't speak for your mom maybe something happened that she had to. But it does seem like a growing trend for girls to have babies and realise they do not want the responsibility and only think of their own self centered wants. Many times kids end up blaming themselves when a parent leaves and they shouldn't.

Answer 4

there is know excuse for what your mam did but i know that it is not your fault!! a mother should never abandon her kids unless she is going to prison for the rest of her life! but she will be the one who will regret it so remember she is the one who has problems not you:)

Answer 5

it your mother problem why she left not your just be there for sisters and love each other she is the one that has to work out her problems it not your or sister fault