i have been friend with this girl since 7 grade and now i am in 10 grade but this girl was with my bf at the same time has me knowing that i was with him i all ready left my bf 2 years ago should i keep being her friend.
2007-01-19 06:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can be her friend, but don't trust her triflin as*! She probably jelous of you and if she did it once, she will do it again. If it was me, I would say F*ck her, but you should trust your instinct.
2007-01-19 07:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Miss_Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to know friends are only human. Never let a boy come between you and your friends. Your not with him anymore, so why should it matter? lol Wish her luck with him and show her exactly what a friend is, when she falls on her rump. However let her know she hurt you and that until she earns your trust back she is not welcomed around your boyfriends. Also keep in mind, she is not the only person that wronged you, if he was yours, he would have never went to your friend. I don't know that I would consider her a friend.. "Associate" sounds better to me. At least until she respects you, and earns your trust. This is also part of growing up, and learning to respect boundaries.
2007-01-19 15:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had previous run-ins with this best friend....get rid of her. The next bf you have ..she just might peek interest in him as well. It's not a good feeling when you can't trust your friends around your bf. ..so keep her distant if you still intend to be friends with her. Good Luck
2007-01-19 15:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not be friends with someone who was going out with you bf because whoever does that is not a real friend.
2007-01-19 15:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by darkbunny15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That saying boyfriends come and go but friends last forever ......thats only true when your friend doesnt disrespect you and cross the bounderies I would never trust her again so it would be hard for me to be friends.
2007-01-19 15:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alison_251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was with your boyfriend while you were with him it doesn't sound like she is much of a friend but if you do decide to continue being her friend just be careful with her!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-01-19 15:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your friend she would not be with a guy she knew was your bf.
2007-01-19 15:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Both she and your boyfriend cheated on you. Since you've already made the right decision by leaving him, I would recommend leaving her too.
2007-01-19 15:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by lenani01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well up to you, we make mistakes as we grow up...so if you can forgive her go for it. But then on the other hand.....if your friend can do this kind of stuff to you.....now imagine what your enemies can do?
2007-01-19 15:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust here. She cares more about herself than being your friend
2007-01-19 15:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋