2007-01-19 06:56:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personality, looks, and some1 who won't treat me like crap.
2007-01-19 06:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, some level of intelligence, manners and charm. Able to hold a decent conversation, but not a chatterbox. Not a gum popper. Knows how to dress sensibly and properly for wherever we are going. If it's the theater, then a formal gown; if it's a Goth type Club, a Velvet Corset; a Fetish Ball, rubber or leather. Looks are towards the bottom of the list. It doesn't matter how "hot" a girl is if she doesn't have the first 4 in some measure then she is just a playtoy. Yes thats harsh, but the world is full of scatterbrain, fluff heads like Paris Hilton who have no purpose in life but to look pretty. Which is very sad.
2007-01-19 07:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bratster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be desperate. confidence, being interesting to talk to and basic good grooming will go a long way. also being where there are a lot of nice guys will help. again dont be desperate you want a nice well behaved guy who is fun to be around and will be a benefit to you and not just any port in the storm who will cause you grief.
2007-01-19 07:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Doug B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate huh?
You know, you could give me a call and..........
nevermind
Anyways, you shouldn't be desperate - those are the times when you 'find something/someone that you wish you hadn't
Upon first inspection, guys look for looks - initial attraction
2007-01-19 07:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality is usually the first thing. guys are knocked out by a girl who can make them laugh. but don't show him that you're desperate
2007-01-19 07:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Slevin Kelevra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Honesty
2. Compatibility
2007-01-19 07:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop the whole desperate thing that will help alot also it comes down to looks basically but sometimes thats not all it takes also depends on what your looking for
2007-01-19 07:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything except desperate..that'sa big turn off...some guys are shallow and go for looks...the smarter one.. go for personality and the ability to play mind games withthem ...they seem to love that...on the other hand guys are dumb they don't ever know...
2007-01-19 07:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by red_klinik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go around saying "I'm desperate" can certainly get you a few dates.
2007-01-19 07:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never be desperate....thats probably the problem! If you don't have any confidence guys usualy see that as a turn off.
2007-01-19 07:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY PERFECT GIRL she would be a real person to herself and me, she would be honest, understanding to my needs, she would not be materialistic, she would be a fantastic lover, she would be funny, she would speak her mind, she would be clean and well dressed,and she would have good looks and take care of her figure,my girl would care,she would work hard and have a good job,she would take an interest in what I say and do, she would want to share her time with me,she would be a positive person, she would be in perfect health and not smoke, and she would be true to me and only me. good luck hunting for one
2007-01-19 07:11:32 · answer #11 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋