Im 25 and there is a guy at work that likes me (i know it), but today he was in a bad mood because he had high workload.
How do I handle him when hes like this? Please answer seriously! Thanks in advance :)
2007-01-19 06:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
let heim be dont intrude in his already hectic day yes maybe take (notice i didnt ssay offer ) justr take him a nice cup of water or soft drink believe me he will notice dont try to make him confortable he'll probably just feel awkward or take it the wrong way smile and you do your job and let him do his
2007-01-19 06:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he can demonstrate a bad mood on the job what about other places?
You know at home, in a car, and other places you can think about.
Who is a person to show their anger? but self centered or self righteous and on. Things happen, should not get angry.
Better luck with a funny guy, I read ladies like guys with humour not anger. Who wants to negotiate moods?
Perhaps I read too much into your question, sorry for that. Having a high workload is no excuse for being moody. Many people work hard. It does not matter if he likes you, you dont deserve moody angry person. I think you should let him know you don't like to deal with his anger or do not wish to have to deal with a person who has an angry temperament. Tell him he has no right to be, seek anger manganement program. Best thing let him off kindly, don't enter into a relationship.
Good Luck
2007-01-19 06:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but when I have a high workload day that's putting me in a bad mood, I'd much rather that other co-workers (regardless of my feelings for them), just give me the space I need to finish my tasks and have some room to think. I think that's all anyone would ask for. So just give him room for today, I'm sure he'll be his jolly, usual self when things lighten up.
2007-01-19 10:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by JenV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very nice to him. I know when I am having a bad day it helps for someone to show me kindness. I always remember them for it. If he likes you that might earn you brownie points.
(Then again some men get defensive because it makes them feel less of a man if they let themselves get softened up)
Keep that in consideration but if I were you I would try the good deed approach, and if it seeems to work, you should do it every time he has a lot of stress. I know I sure wish I had a girl that would do that for me when my day sucks.
2007-01-19 07:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by stickboy_127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who're risky & have a mood that flares up quite regardless no matter if it truly is men or women folk he's putting his hatred in the route of should be prevented & sure we ought to continually continually pay interest to our gut feeling yet each so often after we are youthful we do not, yet as we become older we do have a tendency to attempt this as have slightly bit existence journey
2016-11-25 20:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on experience the best thing to do is give him space and let him get over whatever it is that has him ticked off.
Something simple like, "I'm gonna get a coke, do you need anything?" lets him know you are around, and when he gets over it he will come around.
(no Im not a guy but I have dealt with this before LOL)
2007-01-19 06:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by lunartic5 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would do abosolutely nothing. If a guy is overloaded with work, just let him work on it and it'll get done. Is it the same work you do? Maybe you can offer to take some of the work load off of his hands. Good luck with it! I like your avatar btw!
2007-01-19 06:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix work with romance. Maybe he needs some alone time, and not to be handled.
2007-01-19 06:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a nice hotel room after work and call him to come over.
2007-01-19 06:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to go to lunch with you. And if you go, dont bring up the subject, just talk about normal things and casualy ask whats wrong. If he doesnt want to talk than let it be.
2007-01-19 07:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by beygrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋