2007-01-19 06:03:55 · 13 answers · asked by ツ 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you have to love you. all of you. when you find this, it seeps into your entire world.
2007-01-26 17:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by skywings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things that can make you really happy in life. Here are the ones I know about. Bear in mind that I am only 41, so there are probably others that I haven't figured out yet. LOL
1. Put others first - ahead of yourself. I try to think of people as being Jesus is disguise. How would I act if I knew it was him? In my personal relationships I have found that you can never go wrong by putting the other person first.
2. See beauty in all things. Take the time to really see and hear the world around you. See it as if it was the last time you ever could.
3. Take good care of yourself in every way. Sleep enough, eat well and healthy, exercise, take vitamins, drink water, don't smoke - you know the drill.
4. Learn every day. Read and learn new things to keep your mind and spirit sharp.
5. Believe in a higher power. Know that God loves you and wants the best for you. Have faith and keep it in your heart.
6. Be generous with others. Give what you can for the benefit of others - time, money, yourself.
7. Be a role model for younger people and children. Show them what is good in the world and model decency.
8. Be a moral and decent person yourself. Have a code of conduct that you adhere to so that others can respect you. Don't be ordinary. Be extraordinary!
9. Be positive and keep positive and happy people around you. Don't dwell on problems - that takes up precious time and energy. Problems will usually work themselves out in good time.
10. Listen to your heart. Listen to what the universe is trying to teach you. Be open to change and other opinions. Try not to close yourself off from the rest of humanity.
2007-01-19 07:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do things to make yourself happy take care of yourself change things need to to change your life prespective and realtionships and think of yourself and needs and wants first and love yourself first then others secondly will be best and also when u are happy you will know and u wont need to question it but also learn things u like make u happy and same with people in your life make u happy or real and healthy for u and keep ur guide down some becareful how close how much u trust people and get to know people will help happiness
2007-01-25 17:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you feel like
Don't bother too much of how people look at you
Say what you feel and do not suppress youself
Be You
Do things that make others happy
Give a child a sweet and see him or her smile
Help an elderly across the road and let him or her smile at you and say thank you
Help a lady by giving her instruction of how to manuever her car out of the parking lot and see her raise her hand to you and smile to you with thanks
2007-01-26 15:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Angel's Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be really happy, you need to study about God's love for you, His Heavenly eternal home to be your home too.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Please must visit: www.spiritlessons.com)
2007-01-19 06:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, always be open to learn something new within reason. 2nd of all expect to fail and deal with it. You can always strive for perfection but always know, nothing is perfect. Failure is your teacher.And always remember no one is better than you and visa versa. The day that you think you are better ,Karma kicks in.
2007-01-26 18:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be fully happy.... you have to listen to your instincts. If you know something is bad for you; don't be a part of it. If something makes you smile; then run with it.
Kinda like staying in a relationship that just isn't working for you...get out of it!
2007-01-19 15:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, love yourself and be contented of what u have. it should start from inside you to bring out the best in you. happiness should start from within... and being at peace with your inner self. God is the only one who can provide you with this kind of inner healing.... once you're healed... happiness just explodes from inside you that you want to share it with everyone u meet. shalom!
2007-01-26 16:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life experiences will tell you what you need to be happy. It varies with different individuals
2007-01-26 18:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself 1 what or whom do i consider to be happy. then learn how to reach that goal.
2007-01-26 17:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by bendragon13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋