Why does it seem I only meet whores?

Question

I'm an attractive, young, successful *to an extent*, have a nice car, nice body, I have a flair for fashion, I'm hung like a mammoth, and I've even been told I look like Leonardi DiCaprio crossed with Jim Morrison.

The problem is, I am questioning whether or not I am aggressive enough in my pursuit of women.

This girl I met last week and I hit it off really well. I know she is sleeping with her ex still (they JUST broke up and were together for years) but today my friend said she offered to blow him in exchange for her driving his new VW Jetta. She wanted to drive my VW Beetle Custom SO bad but she didn't make an offer like this!

She told me later that night that she could see herself dating me and how "nice" I am.

I dont expect a girl I just met to be totally honest and true with me especially since we arent dating BUT the thing is, like very girl I meet does this sort of thing.
Where/How can I meet "FUN" girls that don't have "FUN" with every hot guy they meet???

Answer 1

You are probably only going for girls based on their looks, or staying close to the same area all the time.

You seem very obsessed with material things--a girl who truly likes you will care much more about your treatment of her, your personality, your smile, your eyes, etc. than what you own. That goes for your opinion of your physical looks and features, as well.

Go somewhere else--take a ride in that car to another community--and meet some new people. Apparently, you have enough experience to know whether people are being real with you or not.

Answer 2

Sounds like the girls you go for are probably young and immature. What's most important to them are looks, self-satisfaction, and material things. Try and look at the girls personality a little closer before you start to have feelings for them. You can usually tell what a girl's priorities are by what she says and how she talks and acts. It's possible you're also looking in the wrong places. You're not necessarily going to find girlfriend material in bars/clubs or other 'party' spots. Make yourself available to different sorts of girls by visiting new places/stores/events. Get a new hobby - you may meet new girls that way too. I say get rid of this girl because obviously she's not ready for a serious relationship. When you find someone you're interested in really listen to them so you get a feel for who they are and what their goals in life are. It's really going to be trial and error, but after some learning experiences I'm sure you'll be a better judge of character and will know what sort of personality traits to look for and which ones to avoid. Just make sure you learn from what you didn't like about previous girlfriends and don't go back to the same kind of girls each time.

Answer 3

wow, I am recently new to the dating world myself in the last couple years, and I'm kinda in shock at how women are now. She is not the girl for you, you may like her but she will hurt you in the end, and it will be a more painful hurt the longer you are with her. She is in for fun, you need to start looking for other qualities rather than "fun"

Answer 4

They're out there you just have to look for them and try to find them. Believe me they're out there somewhere. I know cause I'm one of them. Ask some of your guy friends that have awesome girls where they met them.

oh and you seem to keep meeting whores becase they're attracted to money and good looking guys. The kind of girls you're looking for tend to be pushed aside by those other girls and probably think that you're only interested in the hot model blow every guy she finds kind of girl. They're intimidated.

Answer 5

Maybe you look like a guy who wants that kind of ''fun''.Maybe these girls think that all you want is the same thing they want.Maybe try toning down the dashyness,& maybe a girl that really likes you for the right reasons will come your way.