i dont know what to tell my friend i really feel wierd around her because i see her kissing another girl.. what should i tell her i mean i dont want to be so mean...
2007-01-19 05:46:43 · 17 answers · asked by aznsexygirl_16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her the truth...
how u feel!
im not bisexual but i know how u must feel cos i had the same problem wit this guy i knew
2007-01-19 05:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am bisexual and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I am in a committed relationship with my soon to be husband (male) and he has absolutely no problems with it. We are monogamous but I am attracted to both males and females. I would just accept her for who she is. As long as she is not putting the moves on you what is it that you need to worry about.
Maybe you should sit down and figure out what it is about her actions that makes you feel so weird and then let it out in the open. We all fear the unknown so figure it out, let it out, then let it go.
Hope this helps.
P.S. My fiance was homophobic at one point and actually took the time to figure out in his head what really frightened him about people's orientation and soon realized that there is nothing gross or weird about people being attracted to each other regardless of gender. Physical, emotional and mental attraction between human beings is a beautiful thing to be cherished and not to be frowned upon.
2007-01-19 14:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by mom2omar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it bother you are you a homophob? it is OK we live in a day in age where women kiss women and men kiss men although i think i would rather see two women getting it on than to men i just don't know why men wouldn't want something soft and pretty but to each their own:) but anyways if she is your friend you will learn to be comfortable with it if not you should keep her a distance but do you really want to loose a friend because her sexual orientation is not the same as yours?
2007-01-19 13:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if she's not kissing on you, then it's not your problem. think about why you truly feel werid and then confront her. if her alternative lifestyle offends you then you need to end the friendship; or maybe you need to grow up and realize it is now conisdered normal to maintain a same-sex relationship. BTW bisexual implies that the person enjoys being with both male & female.
2007-01-19 13:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything you can or even should say about it. She is who she is and who she kisses is for her to decide. If you are uncomfortable with it try to avoid hanging out with her when her girlfriend is around. If she asks why, tactfully tell her you aren't comfortable with it, but recognize that her life is her choice.
2007-01-19 13:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell her anything? What does her kissing another girl have to do with you.
2007-01-19 13:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you respect her choice and you are glad it makes her happy, but you feel odd when she shows physical intimacy in front of you. Make sure you stress that you aren't judging her, this is purely about your feelings.
2007-01-19 13:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by purplemallkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bisexual and if one of my friends was uncomfortable with it i would like them to just be honest just tell her how u feel there is nothin wrong with that
2007-01-19 13:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by ashl2e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable being her friend anymore, then you should let yourselves drift apart.
No ones feelings get hurt, and you don't look like an evil cow.
2007-01-19 13:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the real question is were you jealous?
i think the only reason that you have a problem is that you want a peice of that bisexual action
2007-01-19 13:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bruno Herzegovina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋