He contacts me by e-mail to say he's thinkin' bout me, but remember he won't commit to me. What do you think?

Question

We have been dating for one year

Answer 1

Well it depends, do you want to be in a committed relationship with him? If so, then you need to tell him you deserve more then someone who is just "thinking about you", you deserve to have someone who wants to commit to you and if he can't then you have to move on.

If you don't care if you are in a committed relationship, then you should do what makes you happy, and if you enjoy the relationship you have with him, then you don't have any problems. Although, if you still want more from him, then you need to talk to him, it's the only way you'll get what you want.

Answer 2

what kind of commitment are you looking for? Exclusivity or what? he may really just be thinking about you girl! Or perhaps he knows how to say what you like to hear in order to keep you around without giving you that commitment you're looking for. at the end of the day - if you're looking for more than what he's willing to give right now, you should probably move on. And if he really wants you ... then he'll rethink his decision about committing to you. Good Luck honey!

Answer 3

What's the problem? You want a commitment from him? If you have told him how you feel about being serious and he will not commit, it means that the relationship isn't at that level, or he doesn't want to be tied down. You need to air your intentions to him, and explain what direction you want the relationship to go. As always, communication is the key.

Answer 4

If someone doesnt want to commit to you, ask yourself do you really want to be with someone who isnt sure of themselves and their commitment to you? Dont hint, dont hide, talk to them and if you arent ready then hear them out. Commitment requires communication and understanding, make sure both of you get on the same page .

Answer 5

How can you be dating someone for a year and not have a commitment? If he doesn't want to commit after a year, he doesn't want to be with you. sorry.

Answer 6

Rofl tell him you get plenty of emails from others that are thinking of you why should his be different lol. Then say that the way it is going you can not see a difference you know what you want but does he? Get him thinking. If that don't shake him up tell him good bye.

Answer 7

You probably got a keeper there! Have you asked him for commitment? I'am guessing you havent! Ya have to spell out the c word for a lot of us!

Answer 8

Well, tell him to act more and write less.
A man who talks too much is not to be trusted - he is not a real man. A man should DO more and talk less.

However, it is nice that he is thinking about you. Don't press him. No hurries. It should come naturally that he commits.
One year may be too short to make a decision.
Do you know that song:

"Can't hurry love, love...
etc."
by Phil Collins

I recommend you sit down and listen to it. :-)

Answer 9

will baby its been a year an dont wait for ever for something that is never going to happen there is no opening a mans eye's till they see what they could of had. dont wait move on.
i had a guy who asked me to wait for him an i knew he would never come back for me so i moved on an now i have a grate husbend an he said that he wished that he could be my husbend but that was his loss, an its your guys loss if he dont want you ,your not a dog do not wait on him

Answer 10

I feel like this if he hasnt made a commitment by now then he isnt going to. Let him go! You deserve better.